I found out my husband is GAY

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so I am freaking out now, I don't know what to do. I'm crying because he was cheating with me with a man. I honestly don't want to get a divorce, but it isn't option. My husband cheated on me 20+ times, he even said. My stress levels are high and I'm shaking. Please help!

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    All I will say is He may put your health at risk from various infections and you need to take that into consideration.

    If He was to stop and return to hetrosexuality I would suggest various medical tests and check ups. If this is not the case it seems like you will need to move on.


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    I'm so sorry this is happening to you.   I thought my husband was gay many years ago since we are in a sexless marriage but that wasn't the case.   You need to time to digest all this.  If you don't want a divorce, you don't have too..   Perhaps a legal separation is best.  Or if it's for financial reasons this is OK too.  Is he wanting a divorce? If he is THEN you need to seek legal advice really soon so you don't get screwed.  Also, I would seek out a therapist to talk with as well-- you need to sort all this out and they can help you move forward.   It will be OK.  Go do something-- shop, exercise, talk with a friend, something to help you get your mind off of the situation.  Hugs..

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    It’s ok u should be open minded 
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    that's so awful... you need to leave him ASAP for your own health though. you need to, it'll get easier

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