I found the cure! but continues😩

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So ive never experienced this before until now. I've done so much research and have concluded my boyfriends sperm is what throws my ph balance off. I've been with him for 7 years, and took me into depression for our first 3-4 yrs together over this.

I spent a year with peroxide and water douches constantly just to be "clean smelling" i realized that was only temporary.. i was so embarrassed and mad at myself. Coconut oil, tea tree on tampons, even shoved garlic up there! Ugghhh!

I was obsessed with researching different cures.

I kept reading about boric acid, so i finally bought it.. It TOTALLY works! Finally a cure! A smell that was a NORMAL CLEAN vagina smell!

BUT as soon as he ejaculates in me a couple of times im back to square one 😩 i dont necessarily want to have to rely on buying these every month or inserting all the time.

It's been a downfall in our relationship.

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    ye the cost tots up iv tried almost everything i am currently using clindamycin cream most natural treatments dont work they take the smell away temp but then it all comes back again i got my bv after meeting a new partner after splitting up with my usual partner that teamed with alot of sex is wat has caused mine only thing u can do is keep treating it with different things until u find one that works what works for some people dosnt always work for others

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    I don't allow my boyfriend to finish in me. he understands that it can throw off my ph. we have been together for over two years. Yes, it has been a couple of times he has finish in me. if that happens i insert the gel for two day. just something the two of you might want to discuss

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    i get bv weather have sex or not its there after my period every month and is there every day until my next period annoying sex does make the smell worser but it already smells anyway so it dosnt really matter tbh iv tried not having sex for 3 month and still got the diacharge

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    I am finally to where im comfortable talking and educating this with him.. yet he still will finish in me and say he didnt mean to at times... Then i just automatically think of "well ill just put another boric acid inside" I feel im taking away his satisfaction of not being able to have the full affect of sexual intercourse.

    Continuing to put this in my body i wonder could have long term affects.

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      ok, my bv would return after my period also. i had one dr. suggest that insert the gel two days after my cycle. i also had another dr. suggest that i throw away all my panties because all the bacterial does not get washed out, also she told me not to use always pads. i have been suffering with bv for more than 5years. those things has really help me

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      to throw my comment in I've been using pads non stop for 4 years every day .

      at first I was using always -panty liners the perfumed version for 3 years then I realised one day I shouldn't use the panty version with the sent or perfume so I went to regular always pads and some of the discharge was vile I didn't know what this vile smell was either .

      when I went to see a doctor a few weeks ago he told me never use pads every day so I've stopped completely apart from it period.

      I really used to wash so much I'd use body butter after a bath or shower I'd use baby wipes and fem fresh washes .

      I use to not wash bleach out of my bath properly I use alot of expensive washing powder and softener on my clothes

      my exes could finish in me .

      pesserys I'm trying have inflamed the inside where I inserted it it feels like thrush so now I'm worried to treat thrush incase bv returns.

      so fxxking fed up with it all .

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      ye iv tried changing from tampons to pads then to organic pads... i used panty liners for discharge until someone said not to use anything for the discharge iv changed my soap iv not had sex iv tried not wearing skinny jeans an just wearing loose pants i changed from sleepin with knickers on to takin them off an airing out the area but nothing works no matter wat u change

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      I can't believe how many of us there is and what are all doing wrong I wonder.

      I don't have sperm problems I've not had sperm in me for 3 plus years now so I don't believe all of you with partners can have bv because of sperm.

      I think its simple I just think we're unlucky we've extra sensitive lady gardens and anything can trigger their upset.

      you all should try pesserys I'm on day 3 and no bv but I'm preparing myself for it to return.

      I've been having bad dreams about smelling I keep dreaming I'm with groups of old friends and im dressed in skirts and the smell starts smelling and everyone of my old friends starts to whisper and then one keeps taking me a side to tell me I need to get a bath because its vile smell .

      so it's really starting to impact my mind now .

      sometimes think to myself ...michelle just except you'll be single for life and except I can't wear dresses and except I need to bath and shower upto 3 x day and except I can't sit by anyone its mental torture for me now .

      I dont know if any of you girls feel the same .

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    i also thought about getting Endometrial ablation to stop my periods. however that would have cost me $600 out of pocket.

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    iv thought about having everything removed full hysterectomy iv had enough lol

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      LOL. If i thought that my dr would have i would have ask for one. this infection is the worst. Sometimes i wish i knew more about science so that i could try to develop a cure. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy .

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    I suffered from BV for years and tried every kooky remedy. Then, I changed what I ate! I totally removed all gluten from my diet. I've been BV-free for more than a year. Have you tried this? BV can totally be caused by a yeast overgrowth. You have to starve the yeast to regain a healthy system. So no gluten and reduce your sugar. I also took a high dose of wormwood/black walnut to restore my digestive system. Reach out if I can be of help.

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      yes and feel its my new obsession with researching this. I am wondering if diet changes would help. Also just found recipes for apple cider vinegar thats supposed to balance ph in the body.

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