I had a breakup and now my ex is going after a girl i used to. Be friends with and she is so into it

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So i was in a relationship with this guy for 6 months and we were in love and everything and i also had this friend who i used to talk to and she was rude and mean to everyone but nice to me cause we were friend. Later on me and that girl stopped talking for no reason and she's not mean to me its just we don't t acknowledge each other anymore. So then me and my boyfriend broke up in summer a week before school started because my parents had a problem with his religion and it was too unbearable but we agreed to stay friends and we still loved each other. Then when school came, he only said hi when i greeted him in order not be rude and then completely ignored me up until now (3 months later). Also on the first day he sat next to that girl who used to be my friend and they would flirt constantly and he carries her bag around and I'm so confused cause its not like we had a fight and broke up. We said that we loved each other bit because of the circumstances we had to stay friends so why is he ignoring me and why is he going after my ex friend. Also i cant go and ask him or try to open up a conversation because its been three months since this has been happening and we've both completely ignored each other and its too awkward when we are close.

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    Hi isn't being young hard, especially when you fall in love for the first-time, please try to see the bigger picture because believe me we have all been there and you will probably be their many times before you fall for someone in such a big way it will last you your lifetime, because you love someone though it doesn't always mean they love you in the same way which to be as good as it gets it has to be a two way thing to be really good.

    Sometimes when we split up it can be hard to stay friends, its not because he dislikes you its usually because it cannot always work so possibly the best way to go is try and just except that it isn't meant to be.

    Can you talk to a family member as i dont like to think your sad and on your own.

    if you need to chat and dont have anyone I'm always available you take care x

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    Hi isn't being young hard, especially when you fall in love for the first-time, please try to see the bigger picture because believe me we have all been there and you will probably be their many times before you fall for someone in such a big way it will last you your lifetime, because you love someone though it doesn't always mean they love you in the same way which to be as good as it gets it has to be a two way thing to be really good.

    Sometimes when we split up it can be hard to stay friends, its not because he dislikes you its usually because it cannot always work so possibly the best way to go is try and just except that it isn't meant to be.

    Can you talk to a family member as i dont like to think your sad and on your own.

    if you need to chat and dont have anyone I'm always available you take care x

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