I HAD VASECTOMY IN 2002,SINCE MY OPERATION I HAVE HAD SE...

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I HAD VASECTOMY IN 2002,SINCE MY OPERATION I HAVE HAD SEX 4 TIMES. MY LIVEIN PARTNER IS GETTING FRUSTRATED WITH ME,AS I NOW HAVE NO FEELINGS WOT SO EVER. I CARNT EVEN GET A ERECTION,.DO U THINK THAT VIAGRA WOULD HELP ME. I DO NOT WANT TO LOOSE MY PARTNER, THREW THIS,SHE IS EVERYTHING TO ME.

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    By the sound of things you better go to the doctor to discuss your problems and to give you help and advice. Good luck.

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    Get yourself a reversal and start enjoying life again. I had only pain and discomfort with mine and had a reversal and felt much better for that.[color=red:a8caba11d5][/color:a8caba11d5][size=18:a8caba11d5][/size:a8caba11d5] :!:
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    I had a vasectomy when I was 25. That was 30 years ago. I've experienced pain and discomfort ever since. It's getting worse now and affecting much of my right side.

    Despite being given local anaesthetic, I felt every cut with the scalpel. One of the most painful experiences of my life. I expect things are better now though.

    After the operation, I was very tender, but that is only to be expected.

    I doubt there is anything that can be done for me. I'm seeing my GP about this and have just had some blood tests.

    I had prostatitis a few years ago. A double dose of antibiotics sorted that out.

    I'm really aching as I write.

  • Posted

    im 26 years old extreamly happy with life and love and cant ever c that changing i have 3 childerin and dont want any more and neither dose my partner am concidering a vasectomy and need some advice are all caseis like yours

  • Posted

    Dont give up- see your doc. Dont take no for an answer and for christs sake, dont settle for pills- get to the root of the problem and get it fixed. Good luck!

  • Posted

    I also have had a lot of pain and problems since I had my vasectomy. DON¬T HAVE THE SNIP
  • Posted

    I concur with Bill18 - don't have a vasectomy!

    For the last 6 months I have been struggling to live with Post Vasectomy Pain Syndrome (PVP or PVPS) - we were not fully informed of the risks, indeed we were explicitly told there were no long term risks!

    If you want to risk:

    Long term scrotal pain

    Pain on erection

    pain on ejaculation & for upto 72hrs after

    extended morphine or other addictive medicines

    then by all means consider a vasectomy.

    However you should be very aware of the risks posed by this neither simple nor safe procedure if you do decide to play Russian Roulette and gamble your relationship on a vasectomy.

    You should be very aware this affects upto 14% of men, and within that 14% who suffer pain varying from mild to discomforting there is a fair percentage of us who suffer debilitating levels of pain and who have lost their sex lives!

    The pain is agony and seeing your spouse / partner trying to deal with the effects and guilt is also very difficult to deal with.

    The big question isn't why only 14% get PVP it is why many more don't!

    If you're reading this and considering a vasectomy then my heartfelt and sincere advice to you would be please don't do it, and use a condom.

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