I have a problem with my penis that wont go away. I need help please
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Hi everyone. I have a problem in my penis that is really affecting my life in ways that you cannot imagine. this has been going on for as far as I can remember since I was 13 maybe . I am 23 years guy, I was uncircumcised until 3 years ago. I did the operation because I had a tight foreskin (not very severe) So I couldnt retract my foreskin easily especially when erect. I have also decided to to get circumcised because I have always had a sensitive and painful glans and foreskin. I think this might be the cause of poor hygiene and frequent masturbation from when i was a teen, because I was not cleaning under the foreskin until I found out one day that i should. thats when i found this whole white layer under the foreskin. Now after the circumcision , the tight foreskin problem is not an issue I guess, but the tender glans still persist even after 3 years after I was operated. I went to many doctors , including urologists, dermatologists and neurologists , but without any real help. I tried many creams over the years and I was tested for fungal infection and it was negative ( they did cotton swab test from my urethra ) and I also gave urine test and it was normal. I have never had sex with girls before , mainly because I am scared that it will be painful, Its really depressing because I cannot really approach girls without thinking about this issue , so it really ruin my relationships a lot . Every doctor I went to couldnt see anything abnormal with my penis and they always say that whatever I have should clear on its own by time. But the truth is , it never clears and its always present and I am really tired of waiting for it to clear on its own. I have thought about the possibility that it can be balanitis but my skin is not as inflammed as I saw it is In balanitis cases ,but i guess it can vary from person to person. I also thought that it can be friction burn from all the masturbation. I tried stopping for 2 weeks or so but didnt help. I really dont know what to do now. Is it possible to be friction burn that needs more time to heal due to skin damage caused by frequent masturbation ?? or can it be nerve damage from masturbation ? Please I need some help regarding this issue
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kenneth1955 alaa13216
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Good morning my young friend
I don't know if this is going to help but I think you said it yourself. I looked at the pictures and I thank you for all the different ones but what I think it is could be scare from before.
You said it yourself. Before you got cut you did not talk care of your self the way you should have but that was not your fault. Someone should have told you about pulling back the skin and cleaning every day.
All the test came back good and doctors do not think it anything. So start to enjoy yourself. Go and put yourself out there. Find a nice girl. When you have sex wear a condom because you should. You don't have anything so you don't have to tell them your story. When you find that special person and she ask you then you can explain it to here.
Don't worry and stress about things. Your fine...........Ken
alaa13216 kenneth1955
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thank you really for replying . your reply made me feel better really. But the question is , can I really enjoy it if it will be a little painful and sensitive ? I tried masturbating with a condom and i think wearing a condom helps reducing the pain. but I was thinking like If i want to engage in oral sex , it will be a little painful for me
kenneth1955 alaa13216
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Buddy
Maybe you need to just take it slow. If you don't use a condom to masturbate make sure you use a lot of lube. I would take it slow with oral. Get to know your partners body and let them get to know your. Little steps first. Just give yourself time.
Have fun and be safe.......Ken
alaa13216 kenneth1955
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Yes thank you . I think its friction burn or chafing I dont know . maybe like skin damage has occured and that is why its tender to pass my finger on the glans. I will try to abstain from masturbating for a while now and see if it helps, although I have tried this already. thank you really