I have a seven yr old boy with this condition, I would l...
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I have a seven yr old boy with this condition, I would like to speak to other mothers in the same situation
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i wont lie to you, i had a pretty grim childhood, the one thing your son has going for him, is that you have a correct diagnosis (whereas i didnt untill eighteen) so his school and school friends should be sympathic to his situation. i know i'll never forget being the first person in the dinner hall and still sitting in my place when the afternoon bell rang for lessons after only managing to eat a couple of mouthfuls of food, or trying to run to the toilet to be sick and not making it in time! or being so skinny the other kids took the micky out of me (i once went more than 2 years without showing my legs, even on the beach!) i couldnt go out to play or stay at friends houses either, as i got older the condition just got more and more embarrassing for me, what boy wants a girlfriend who cant eat or breath properly! (my achalasia had progressed so much, food was spilling into my lungs)!!
children can be very hardy though, and tend to take things in their stride especially young children, (my condition largly stared embarrassing me at secondry school), so try not to worry too much (i know its easier said than done!) like i said its a great thing your son has been correctly diagnosed so early and although the treatment is quite scarey, it is well worth doing whatever your surgeon recommends. in the meantime, try giving him a couple more pillows at night, it helps if you sleep propped up, and feeding him little and often with plenty of water to drink, no bread if you can help it as this tends to 'stick' and make sure everyone who he spends time with knows his situation, so if he runs into problems while eating with them, they wont force him to finish his meal or make a big deal of it, stressing him out over it wont do him any good. while he's having an attack, try to keep him as still as possible, with me if i moved around it seemed to feel worse, also if he's not eating well vitamin supplements are good. most of all try to be patient and understanding with him, i could be quite horrible when i was hungry and couldnt manage to eat!
if you want to get in touch please do (just write a reply on my own experience, its somewhere on here)
things will get better for your son, i promise you, they have for me. having the operation was a turning point in my life
Stacy Brown
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it sounds funny but i think burping is kind of like a side-effect of achalasia, as when my food has trouble going down, i burp loads and for ages after i eat! i dont make myself burp, they just force their way out!!!
i think its because as the food tries to get pushed down it pushes any air out.
it can be embarrassing at times (obviously!!) but when you burp it can feel like it helps, as it feels like the food is shifting down your foodpipe, which in turn makes you feel abit better (well it does for me anyway)
im not saying one big burp makes your foodpipe clear, but a few burps can make you feel abit more comfortable!
Stacy B
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my 15yr old daughter has achalasia and had the hellers and fundoplication op last july. she is now like she was before the symptoms started and eating anything and everything. she now only complains occasionally about reflux and the odd pains. her weight is going back on too which is a relief. she is now back to her teenage tantrums which is annoying but also a blessing as it shows she is back to her old self. the operation was well worth it and she was out of hospital 2 days after the op. she was also eating 3 proper meals a day and that was with a pudding after lunch and dinner. sloppy at first but they let her have sausage the day she left hospital. she has never looked back and gets excited about putting weight on. she went down to 5stone 5 lbs just before the op and she is now 7stone 4lb.
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I find jumping up and down when I suffer from it really helps my food go down! I told my doctor this and he told me that yes this could work as it had something to do with gravity.
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Eating sloppy food for 6 weeks really helped before we tried the \"harder\" food and it was definitely a case of little and often until his stomach expanded.
This website has really helped us - not much information on food is supplied by the medical profession!
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I had my Hellors 6 weeks ago and today I saw my Consultant and he gave me the all clear. One the way home we had fish and chips to celebrate and I am so pleased to say that it went down lovely. That has something I have not been able to do for about 4 1/2 years :@)
All the best to you all. xx
d69818 Guest
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Hello parents of kids with achalasia, just wondering if this site still active. I read your posts and are all very helpful, thanks and if any one of you still check this forum, I'd like to talk to you. Take care.
AlanJM d69818
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I suggest that Achalasia MeetUp group who may be able to help. There is a link through the Achalasia section of the website of the Oesophageal Patients Association. One of the issues might be how children cope with eating with their friends when very few people understand the issues involved.
d69818 AlanJM
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Thanks Alan, I just saw your message that you sent 19 days ago. I'll check out the site that you have mentioned here. Have a nice day🌻