I have been depressed for a week what do I do
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I was recently broken up with through a text. we had been together for a year and a half. He broke up with me in march, realized his mistake and asked for a second chance. I gave him one and he broke up with me again two days ago in a text and also shared he is leaving to college in three days (he had not told me he was planning to do this so i was blindsided). I blocked him on everything when he dumped me because two days after the breakup he followed all of the girls that caused problems in our relationship on instagram and it hurt a lot. I have been so depressed and trying to get past this, then yesterday he sent me an email letting me know he wanted to meet so i can say bye to him (also letting me know he leaves friday) . He went on a long tangent about how "just because we are parting ways this isnt the end for us" which hurt more because it feels like false hope. And he tried to say the breakup was on me bc i told him i wanted to stay and we couldnt make distance work if he left (the reason i said this was bc a week or two ago he hung out with girls at 1am without telling me and then when i found out he said he knew i would be mad which is why he didnt tell me) I said i knew i couldnt trust him here so i cant trust him being far away. anyways, We are attending the same college, and now i dont feel motivation to do my schoolwork or even be alive. we attend what us known as a "party school" so it feels like he gets to move up there and be happy while i stay home isolated and miserable. I have no friends and I feel ugly and useless, please help me.
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briellewhite syd7122
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hi there sweets, i am really sorry to hear that.. i know currently things would feel like getting apart and life might seem doomed but nobody can hurt or help you other than yourself.. if a guy is not able to know your worth his loss man!.. why should you be paying all for the breakup.. you are depressed and this is the peak time a person needs attention.. stay around positive people, pamper yourself, get into activities like gym and socializing.. set new goals.. be gentle to your brain and body, don't effect yourself with others choices build your own life.. time heals everything.
jessica95409 syd7122
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hey i'm so sorry about this but i think if he broke up with you and then followed ALLLL the girls that you had a problem with while in your relationship dont think about it as him being caniving just think of it as he regrets dumping you AGAIN and because he is to scared and too much of a child to ask you out for the third time he is trying to maybe make it up by dating loads of girls because you are better then all of them combined so hun what i think you should do is get a soothing bath with a nice bathbomb and ur favourite drink with maybe ur favorite show or calming music or i woud recommend meditation music and maybe have a snooze in the time for like 30 minutes and relax and just feel all of that waste of space washing and soaking away you dont need a guy no matter how long you were with him and it may sound harsh but girl power is the only power i feel we need in this world of hash society.