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I have Herps and love oral Sex

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trell_82518
trell_82518

Hello I have been with my bf for about 5 yrs now and I found out that I have hsv1 and 2 he had been very surportive very I think I got it from my ex husband even though he haven't said anything about it we were married for 14 years but anyway my bf love I mean love for me to perform oral Sex on him like all the time but when I ask for him to do me it you know why I can't but whats the difference we kiss we have regular Sex we do use condoms but it's been a few times we haven't but we never used them before I found out I had it we had oral Sex regularly. Now he said he got tested and was negative but he wouldn't show me the paper work I think he is lying. But it he don't have it ok that fine I'll not trying to make him do anything he is the one who wanted to have unprotected Sex the times we did have it he took the condom off. But what I am asking is is it ok to have oral Sex with each other thanks in advance. I'm sure glad I have some where I can vent about this it feels great wowww and outlet

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  • abel95347
    abel95347 trell_82518

    Posted

    Hmm for starters it is weird that he wont show you the results..but anyways if you do your research an if im not mistake wich dont think i am. He has more of a chance of getting it thru unprotected sex then oral that is hsv 2 but he can still get it orally. Now if he dont have hsv 1 wich he may alot of people then i can kinda understand but even then if hes having unprotected sex with you then it sounds more like an excuse...now buy going down on you he could get hsv2 orally but its rare cuz hsv2 likes the g area an he could get hsv 1 orally(if he dont already have it) but even then he would have a cold sore like one time an thats it..well for the most part..

    I think he making excuses....cuz if i where him an you did oral on me i would love to return the favor (he can use a dental dam female condom an perform that way on you.. ???) so why not???

    Do you know if he has hsv 1? Like has he ever had a cold sore?

    • trell_82518
      trell_82518 abel95347

      Posted

      He have not and we had it all the time before we found out. I love him so much and I want do anything to intentionally hurt him but maybe in time he will feel comfortable with it .Thank you so much I'm glad I have a place I can come and vent this is my first time talking about this to anyone besides him .wowww again thank you I feel so much better I hope you have a great day ??

    • abel95347
      abel95347 trell_82518

      Posted

      No problem its a cool website! It helps alot of us but ps. Maybe he not making excuses but just not educated on it people just think the worst about this skin condition. Like for instants its more likley that a male give it to female then female to male
    • abel95347
      abel95347

      Posted

      Have a good day as well
    • trell_82518
      trell_82518 abel95347

      Posted

      Yes and I you might be wright it makes if easier to talk to him when I know more as well. Have a great night TTYL 😊 🙋
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