I have the worst penal problem

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Hi! 

I m 16 years old. I started masturbating 1 year ago when I was 15. I hid this from my family. So I am asking you guys. So I like masturbating and I would do it once everyday or sometimes once every two days. 90% i would fap to porn and 10% to my imagination. I have foot fetish and girls' feet pics and porn would get me hard as hell and i would cum in 10 minutes or so, and it was very pleasureable. However few days ago, i wanted to masturbate because I was despressed ( i think masturbation releases stress ) and when I started to stroke my penis got soft. I got ir hard again but it got soft in 30 seconds. I came with a half erect penis and it was not pleasureable or stress relieving. I left masturbation for 1 day thinking it would help and I woke up with a half erect penis so when I went to masturbate i got hard late and got soft back in 20 seconds, and the erection was so painful. Since then whenever I try this happens and i leave masturbation mid way. I can still come to feet but with half hard penis. Today my penis didn't even got hard. I was scared, that God cursed me, but you know this is not the reason. I dont smoke, dont drink and i m little fat, eat a little junk food but i retained stressed half my day. Now it wouldn't even be hard for girls walking with revealing shoes and cute feet. I m scared it may affect my sex life. Plz dont tell me I have ED at this age, I will kill myself. Your response is appreciated and awaited. Plz help me

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  • Posted

    This is a fact of life.  Every man masturbates when they go through puberty.  So don't stress about it.  Stress will kill you erection.  Every man has a different way to do it and we all have our own fetish.  Just relax and have some fun.  Don't stress.  And you can have a orgasm when your soft.  A lot is in your head.  Give yourself some time  Ken 

  • Posted

    You just need to rest your penis. Wait as long as you can. A week might be long enough but if you can wait longer all the better. If you wake in the morning with an erection, ignore it - eg get up quickly, move about, have breakfast or attend to things outside yourself. Morning erections have little to do with true sexual arousal - they are just the body's way of promoting healthy circulation in your penis. After a week or so, resume masturbation, but if you go soft, don't try to ejaculate. You need to train your body to only ejaculate when your penis is hard, that's if you want to start a family anytime in the future. Although your foot fetish may be pleasurable, try to fantasise sex with the whole woman. Imagine how proud you could be at bringing her to orgasm with licking, caressing and giving her pleasure all over her body. The more, when you have a real partner, you can concentrate on your partner's pleasure, the more likely you will have good erections. Concentrating on our own bodies can become stressful. The best sex is when there is no pressure to perform, just mutual fun, pleasure and, most of all, true love and affection.

    • Posted

      Thank you. I will try my best to do as you said. I can't get a girl now, but I will later and I want family

       So I don't want to ruin my future ( get soft with her due to masturbating soft ) . I will try to avoid as much as I can. I hope this patience bears fruit.

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