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Hello, about 35 days ago I had protected sex with a prostitute. Towards the end she removed the condom and performed a handjob. What is my risk for genital herpes? I've had itching and a sharp pain in my rectum but that was a week ago roughly and it lasted for maybe 4 days. Sharp stools as well but no signs of blisters or anything herpes related around my anus or genitals or that general area. Help!

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    The risk for herpes is still high as you can still catch beepers hsing a condom as your having direct contact of skin , so if she had them theres a chance you could , depending on where you found her if in ??an organised one there usually clean bit if on the street well that's another thing but why would any one pay for sex there's ppl out there that you could meet for free I don't get the use of prositutes

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    I wouldn't be to concerned if you didn't have any open sores or blisters or discharge or inflamed lymph nodes. Even more so, if now the symptoms are gone.

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      They would be palpable, swollen, slightly painful, just so much, that they'd be noticable to you. I heathy person does not even know that he/she has lymph nodes in the body. If you notice them, there body could fight an infection. Slightly uncomfortable feeling (or dull pain) in your groin or lower abdominal region (can be like suprapubic pain). and, if you have this uncomfortable feeling under your armpits (as well), where you can also feel them with your fingers, that would go towards general lymphadentitis..Which is not cool.  

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      ️Thanks for info , but where would they be situated are ️they by the hips or are they inthe vagina on the opening where would Dr be feeling for them? X
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      Some dr.'s a lousy by finding them. They should have experience.. They would be in the groin, in a crease between your thighs and pelvis. Check out for superficial inguinal and femoral nodes

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      Hi sorry it was only for my knowledge I was wondering where they was as I knew we had some in our neck and arm pit but didn't knw where the others was x I have a lump you see like the size of ?an eye ball on the opening of the vagina that's woth in the labia on the inside fight by where you insert a tampon sometimes they swollen together can make it difficult to access the hole x

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      Groin lymph nodes are very important sign and they are palpable when inflamed, swollen and can be painful (but not necessarily). About you lump, i don't think it is a lymph node, but something worth showing to your doc

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      Hi thankyou what does palpable mean?

      I am having a smear on Monday long over due (2years) I have been really scared and ashamed so not gone for any tests or stis even tho I know I may have contracted them , im a mess I have had to force my self to go im not looking forward to it but now the bleeding spotting is getting me really anxious, I have again today had discharge that has blood in and just know been for a shower where there was this thick dark red to brown gooey thing like discharge come out in a clump I don't know what is going on but I dont feel right at all, , 😣

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      palpable...so, that it can be felt under fingers. It's gonna be shame or life. Decide for life and  go see a doctor. Let them check you for std's, just tell them, you weren't 'good'. Tell them, you may experience this uncomfort for several months, and that is getting worse. say you didn't know, play dumb. All the best.

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      Hi I had my smear today was not as bad as I thought at all, I'm so pleased with my self I feel I can relax a bit , nurse said there was a bit of blood up there but just have to wait for results in 2 weeks also got a pee test done for chlaymidia ?and gonareah which came back ok but she had took swabs for bv and thrush and others and she said wait for those results to so just need to wait now xx

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