I'm afraid to go outside :(
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I'm a 16 years old shy guy, i don't enjoy socializing and when i do i feel absolutely exhausted and drained of energy afterwards, i like to work only in a quiet environment, i get panicked in overcrowded places,i RARELY go outside because when i do people stare at me and i feel like there's something wrong with me..
also my parents hate me because i have NO friends to hang out with.. they keep trying to change me and it really hurts, it makes me feel like I'm not the wanted son.. i mean they treat me like i have some sort of disease. All i want from them is to leave me alone, it's my f* business I just want to know, is there anything wrong with me because everyone tries to change me
P.S: When i say i hate people who stare at me i don't mean just a simple quick 3 seconds eye contact i mean they STARE AT ME for a long time! especially in my neighbourhood, And when they do i panic! Some of them stare at me and they look like they're holding back their laughter and when i pass they start laughing! then i start asking myself what's wrong with me? Is it because of my acne?am i walking in an improper form? Is it because I'm too skinny? Am i ugly? Even so if I'm ugly are they gonna laugh at me and say"look at that ugly a$$ kid he's so f* ugly! Look at him and laugh!" It's just too hard for me! I just like to stay in my room read books,draw,watch some tv shows and stay alone
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susan4301 nendo99072
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Also, it helpes me to think of it this way when people stare at me in public. Who cares what they think anyway? You will never see that random stranger ever again, so who cares if they think you are creepy or ugly or whatever. For example, I had thyroid surgery which left me wiith a weird ugly scar on my neck (I am a 14 year old girl by the way) Sometimes little kids at the mall I don't know get scared of me or I get weird looks. But who is some random stranger to judge me or you? To hell with them, they are just random people you never will even talk to so who cares what they think.
nendo99072 susan4301
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It feels very clichéd to say "just be yourself and don't care about others" because no matter how hard i try to do that it doesn't work
Anyway i really appreciate your help, Thanks.
susan4301 nendo99072
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SimplyMrHill nendo99072
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hannah80641 nendo99072
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It's easy for people to say just ignore them, they are nothing but it's the hardest thing in the world as you feel like you will never have a life!
But don't let things get you down and you be the person you want to be. You know yourself better than anyone. Have you sat down and spoke to your parents and told them how you feel? Mine struggled at first but now they understand and are amazingly supportive. You be true to yourself and even if you might feel as though someone is laughing, just think to yourself, they are nothing to you and have no importance in your life. Surround yourself with people that make you feel happy and who are kind people and forget about the idiots out there who are so insecure with themselves that they feel they have to try and ruin everyone else's day.
Keep strong, keep fighting, you are strong and you can and will overcome this in time.
wheresmybat nendo99072
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Nah, I'm a girl and I can tell you that I stare at cute or hot guys( I think all girls only stare at really attractive people, when we walk past them we squeel and smile like crazy, yes and laugh) well unless you have an unusually huge mole or something people will just stare at you for a few seconds and just mind their own business or some people(me) just zone out while walking and accidentally stare at people. Most girls don't judge what you wear (nobody does) just stand confidently and proudly(they won't notice the clothes you wear). If they do judge then who cares, it's not like your life depends on their opinions, it's not like you're going to marry them and be with them for the rest of your life. You might be an introvert, introverts tend to like their alone time more then others, you get more out of being alone unlike an extrovert who thrives on attention. Being in parties or long conversation drains you out and you need your alone time to recharge but it doesn't mean you have to go out of your way to be crazy active or anything, I have an introvert friend and she'sreally interesting (her personality I mean) I'm 2 years late so I hope by now you're much more comfortable with yourself I'm not an expert sorry.