I'm literally going nuts and need some input

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Recently I was in a relationship.. We had sex with a condom.. Few days later I had a few bumps show up. I got nervous bc they looked like razor burn / boils. I put some black salve they went away. I saw my gyno she swore I had herpes. All my test came back negitive. So a month and a half went by. I found out I was cheated on went back and got tested and my test came back positive for 1 and 2. I have 2 bumps then a bump it popped yesterday leaked out alot of fluid and it's closed back up today. I need some input bc I'm in denial and I can't believe I got it. I get re tested this week to make sure but anyone that has it. Tell me ur first outbreak and if this sounds like herpes. Please and thank you.

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    From your words i think it is herpes. 

    It is rarely transmitted if condom used. But may your man was already having an outbreak at sex time. 

    Or may be you had it long time before with no outbreaks and just you had rough sex last time that triggered it. 

    Anyway, dont panic. 

    The first outbreak is always the worst in terms of symptoms and psychic point. 

    You should get meds for it after consulting a specialist doctor and you will be ok. 

    Your future sex life will be limited somehow. Like using condom and telling your partner clearly that you have herpes. And sure no sex if you doubt having an outbreak. 

    • Posted

      After the whole scare I looked up pics on Google and asked him to show me his penis which he did and he had bumps.. He said it's bc of being to rough and moving panties out of the way which I highly doubt.. My gyno said she's not putting me on medication till I have my first outbreak which is tough cause I don't know what to look for

    • Posted

      So you mean that you had sex while your man had outbreak?!!

      Anyway you should start medicine now as now you have outbreak

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