I'm newly diagnosed after 4 years of misdiagnoses by my GP. Im scared by the chance of vulva cancer

I would also think vit e oil from vit e capsules would promote healing

The clobetasol (or alternative)  is what stops the itching in my experience and does little else  - but that in itself is a Godsend wth knock-on other benefits.

 The moisturisers like coconut oil, emu oil, etc. are to stop the skin drying out and help prevent cracking and soreness, also have a helpful mild barrier effect.

The vaseline or other good barrier cream are to protect the sore skin underneath to give it a chance to heal with out hot urine going over it. It acts like a waterproof barrier.

When I have flare-ups, I have a bath or use a sitz bath over the toilet , using a drop of E45 bath oil, at least twice a day, dry just gently and put more vaseline there.

It's amazing how quickly our immune systems can heal the angry red soreness before changing its mind and attacking it again .

I think that is everyone's first thought but as long as you keep it under control you should be ok

Im very sorry about your doctor that was very unprofessional

What works for me to keep it under control is taking wheatgrass every day and pro biotic and I changed my diet I am gluten free and every time I use the restroom I wipe it clean and spray witch hazel then pat dry then put the purest aloe Vera on that you can find the moisture helps prevent fusing and at night I apply 45,000 iu vitamin E oil it helps a lot