I'm not happy anymore
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I wouldn't say it's come on just recently but it has been building up and currently has got increasingly worse. I don't really know how to describe the emotion I'm experiencing, sometimes it's upset, or scared, or loneliness or just a numb feeling but it's not always constant. What is constant however is just not being happy there's live this void that never used to be there.
I'm currently 16 and whilst I know this is probably all hormonal I need to talk to someone whether it be anonymous or not. I'm half way through my GCSEs and I don't believe this to be stress induced as I'm not particularly stressed at the moment. I'm not happy at my current school or my current location but I put that aside as I was meant to be moving out of the county during the summer, I've know this for a couple of years. At first I was devestated about the news but I began to accept it and as I became unhappy I sort of placed hope in the fact that getting out of this awful place would give me a chance at happiness.
However the thing that the move relied on fell through but I was told that we'd still be moving. Recently it has come to my attention that we won't, and although I kind of knew for a while that we wouldn't that chance if happiness has been shattered. I'm scared. I haven't been accepted by any schools and I CAN'T stay at my current school. I don't think being chucked into any school that is willing to take me will do me any good.
I've had a few things going on at home recently and they often result in fights with my mum. Whilst I know this a normal thing for any teenage girl to fight with their mum the most recent argument resulted in her saying that I'm not her daughter she doesn't care if were related by blood that she wants nothing to do with me. And whilst a whole chunk of me wants to blame the way I'm feeling on that I know it's not true.
I have told people how I felt but I blamed it on everything at home and exaggerated stuff at home a bit. I always wondered why I did that but I know now it's because I wanted there to be a reason for how I'm feeling and make people understand and on some sense try and understand myself. But I now know that I can't pin point an exagpct trigger for this void.
i don't really know what I'm trying to ask but I guess I need to talk to someone even if I don't know who I'm talking to. If anyone has any advice please respond I just need to know I'm not on my own.
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joan152 katie52188
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I think you need to talk to somebody,
To think that at 16 it is normal to fight with your mother or any age fills me with horror
can you blame your mum at the moment for not wanting to know you,I don't know all the details and don't wish to but to be fighting with your mother just is not right,I suggest you go to your GP or a counsellor perhaps somebody at school you certainly need help..
Good Luck
Vickycam joan152
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katie52188 Vickycam
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Vickycam katie52188
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joan152 Vickycam
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joan152 Vickycam
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The last thing on a forum like this is for upsets which never would I do.
And if you post on here you will get opinions,and the person who thinks it harsh should respond.
Not another stranger.
patricia85842 Vickycam
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joan152 patricia85842
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I retract what I said just it's not what I have ever come across,I will not comment any more ,and find I will leave the forum
sorry to my friends.
bye
abraham62199 joan152
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patricia85842 joan152
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Pat
joan152 patricia85842
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katie52188 joan152
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Reggie04 katie52188
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I could'nt cope with pretty much everything '. So frightened of the easiest tasks. Venlafaxine helped me get slowly but surely out of the biggest black hole of my life.,, counselling also helps some people although I am better speaking one to one. And not in a group. See your dr to seek help and advice?
katie52188 Reggie04
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abraham62199 katie52188
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much. If you are still up, have a nice rest, and no thinking as thinking to much can be depressing.
Goodnight