I’m scared
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Hello,
I know hip replacements are great compared to a damaged hip but I can't get the thought of something going wrong so I'm scared.
I'm 32 and getting my left done in 2 weeks and then right side 6-8 week later.
also...how do I support my new hip even thought my other is damaged? anyone else been in a postion where both hips cause disability and pain - surely recovery is longer if you can't support the new hip.
thanks for the support,
Dan
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andy8251 daniel98313
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aloha daniel, I was 42 when I got my hip replacement, that was in 2000, just the one though, left like yours, it went like nothing happened, I went to sleep and woke up feeling zero pain, and you have the benefit of 19 years of people who know how to recover from such procedures. All I can tell you is as of today my now 19 yr old hip replacement has not given me any problems at all, when I feel motivated I can pretty much do anything I want, what ever hesitation I feel about doing some movement is all in my head, not in the hip joint, I'm no athlete or anything, I've avoided contact sports, but not contact human relations, that stuff can get pretty tricky, but even sex is a non-issue, any limitations were in my head. Don't be hanging from any rafters doing back flips, unless you know how that is, I figure if your medical team is competent you'll do fine, just don't be concerned that the ball joint will pop out and you'll be on the ground with the leg at your side, that will not happen, I promise you, I thought that was possible, like some hollywood movie, maybe it is, ask your doctor, nah forget it, you will be fine, you're young, your grand kids need you, lol.
rose0000 daniel98313
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I was terrified. I so understand how you feel Daniel. I could not sleep for worry, couldn't think about anything else.
BUT, I had the operation and now seven weeks on, I am completely pain free walking around and living my life. It is worth the stress, you will be so glad you did it. Trust me.
The surgeons will take upmost care of you, they will understand how you feel, and more to the point you will get your life back.
Distraction is a good option, and making yourself very busy until the day. Deep breathe and remind yourself of your goals and dreams at the end.
Cyndey daniel98313
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what a great incentive you are Dan, I had my op beginning of December last year and i am a lot better during the day but by no means free of pain! i still find it difficult getting comfortable at night. I am having second hip done on Monday and I am also scared and dreading the weeks after my surgery having to sleep on my back is one of the things i dread and getting in and out of bed but I am 72 , plus i hope having second one done will be a quicker recovery, i still have pain on operated side in groin area but i suppose we are all different and our recovery time varies, pleased to see you are doing so well it gives us all an incentive for sure
Hip2020 daniel98313
Posted
Hi Daniel,
we would like to hear how you are doing with your new hips?
hope all is well.
scott76986 daniel98313
Posted
i feel the same way as its getting closer
scott76986 daniel98313
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im having both done at same time but spose get it sorted quicker