I'm scared of what I have found out. My boyfriend gave me herpes idk what to do

If I was in your situation I would talk to him.i know your scared to but it's better then not talking to him about it. I just found out I have herpes Wednesday I cried and cried I don't have anyone to talk to my family laughs at me. But I think you should talk to him!

hi destiny it's so sad what happened to you you shouldn't even call him your boyfriend he is such a loser for not telling you and not being honest with you something like that happened to me I'll let you hear my story I was seeing a man but you use what I thought he was everything to me I trusted him I thought I was the only one but guess what no I can move away because of his job so he came back in July so I got to see him then so we were together again we had decided before you left we were just going to leave it and go with the flow but we will respect each other so I figured that I could trust but guess what when he came back I asked him if he had any encounters with anybody she told me no I asked him like 3 times he always said no okay after he left like about a week later started feeling like the flu symptoms which made me feel really sick so I went to the doctor and I told her that I had some pimples on my face but I also was very stressed out from my job and things you know stuff like that well she told me she was going to run a full panel to see how I was so I said okay great before he had left I had taking a test STD because it was fine for me to take one because during the days before he left I feel insecure but I didn't tell him I think I'm one of them know that I felt that way so I did so everything came out negative the first time after he left in July and came back like I was feeling so sick so my doctor said let me run another test on you he did the herpes test positive I felt awful and dirty because I'm not the kind of person that goes around fooling around so it hurt me so bad I didn't know what to do I didn't know who to talk to him so I joined this log to see what people have to say so that help me a little bit but it didn't take the pain I have inside me and then my life will never be the same because I have this one find me and I will never get him I don't like body but then one day I talk to this girl on the Block she made me realize then my life has been really now I just have to try to live with this and make my life better it's hard to understand at first butt you are only seventeen you should talk to your mom you're so young you life has been ended because you have this you don't need to tell anybody but you do need to get medical advise and get yourself on the medication so you don't tell me anybody take good care of yourself that boyfriend of yours don't even talk to him he is a loser he's not a man he's a loser I should have been honest to you if I was you don't take him back I was so overwhelmed with the news so I started doing meditation to help me calm down 25 minutes because my mind goes crazy after an hour talk to your mother just you and her need to know she can give you a lot of comfort support you going to need it you will get over this feeling but it takes time the good thing is you have a good support system

Ok so first off I will say that I'm sorry you are going through this but it is not the end of the world or your life by no means!!! Now I have some questions to ask. How did you find out...positive by blood test (igg) or (igm-not recommended) or positive by swab of an open lesion? It's time to arm yourself with education before you panic. If you were positive by blood (igg) teat then you have had Hsv for at least 3 months but maybe longer. Did you have an outbreak?