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I Need a Professional to Look at my Hymen

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bbwire33
bbwire33

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I am having a huge internal crisis. I got drunk for the first time six months ago and I woke up in a coworkers apartment naked and I don't remember anything. I see a lot of blood on the sheets and my vagina has pain inside. I completely freak out, I have never had anything larger than a single finger (twice before) and had never bled like that in my life. I accuse him of raping me in my state since I remember clearly he was sober because of "work the next day". He tells me he just fingered me and I apparently told him to stop in my drunken stupor. I don't know what to believe and sadly I do not have a before picture of my vagina. I also didn't call the cops or write a report because I was an idiot who was hoping he told me the truth, which I haven't been able to forgive myself for my naivety. I know a gyno can't confirm or deny trauma from six months ago but I want to know a professional opinion by looking at my vagina. If there is any hymen left.

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I want to know if there is any way to know by looking at my vagina if I might have been raped or not. If there is any visible hymen? Why the skin at the very bottom of my vagina looks like it healed that way. The day the events happened I was too groggy and I think I remember not seeing that skin there when I woke up but now it's back? It looks traumatized. I have only been fingered twice. Both times with a single finger both incidents were months before the incident happened. I went to my primary doctor and she didn't give me any answers and she kind of prodded at my vagina. But she didn't confirm seeing any hymen.

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  • Fortman
    Fortman bbwire33

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    no, there is no way to visually identify a rape half a year ago. every hospital has rape kits, but the clinic must be consulted immediately All the best

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