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neo70728
neo70728

So I was kinda messing around in the moment and low key did unprotected anal. And by low key I mean we hardly did it, like it wasn’t the full thing or anything like that. I’m a male and it’s hurt for 3 days but the pain has gradually getting better. I’ve drank lots of water and my pee is still clear. I’m way too young to go to a doctor and my parents would flip. I’m very scared, I can’t tell if it’s a Uti or something else I’ve never heard of. It’s not like been a super bad pain or anything. I just need some answers because I’m very scared that I could like die or something. I haven’t ran a fever or been sick either. Just some pain when I pee or when I need to pee. Help me

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  • Pepasan
    Pepasan neo70728

    Posted

    If you're in the UK, Canada, Australia or New Zealand, you should be able to get a doctor's advice without your parents having to know. Also applies to Sexual Health Clinics. Look up Gillick Competence in Wikipedia. 

  • kairos
    kairos neo70728

    Posted

    If you’re in high school could you visit the health nurse if you have one? At mine you can book an appointment and it’s confidential. Otherwise it might be best to tell your parents that it’s painful (if it doesn’t go away or whatever) and see the doctor. I assume they’d just do a urine test and you shouldn’t have to tell them what happened. Best of luck! 
  • Guest
    Guest neo70728

    Posted

    U should tell your parents and get tested. Anal is loaded with germs
    • sam6990
      sam6990 Guest

      Posted

      Good advice Fern. I’m sure his parents will have his best interests at heart. You can’t afford to neglect things like that. 

      Best wishes to all. 

  • lynda20916
    lynda20916 neo70728

    Posted

    Your prostate might be inflamed.  Get yourself to the doctor. No one is way too young to get medical care.  Just tell your folks that it hurts to pee--you needn't tell them anything else.  Get it sorted.  And no more unprotected sex!    

  • neo70728
    neo70728

    Posted

    Okay guys so me and my girlfriend think that it might just be a friction burn because my pee and everything seems quite fine and like I said it was only like the tip yanno. And lotion has seemed to help a lot. There’s not like a rash or anything but when it happened everything was raw and I’m not gonna lie it kinda hurt. Do you guys think that it’s more of a possibility?
    • lynda20916
      lynda20916 neo70728

      Posted

      Sorry, Neo, but you're being human, freaking out and asking for help, and then asking a friend what they think, and hoping it's what the friend thinks it might be. If the pain continues, you need to see a doctor.  

      I understand that you're young, but if you believe in your words you're "too young" to go to a doctor, you've made the decision to have sex, which brings a certain level of responsibility with it.     

    • Guest
      Guest neo70728

      Posted

      Neo. I agree with Lynda. U should really get checked out. If not this time what about the next.
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