I think my operation has failed 😞😞
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Hey all, I’m gutted I am sure my operation has failed. I had an anterior and posterior repair on 3rd November and when I look now I can see a lump again at opening it feels like a ball all bump like bubble wrap!Â
Ruining my life never gonna be able to meet someone at this rate how embarrassing really don’t want mesh after all the reports on itÂ
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jean18443 jennifer_08098
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Is it bothering you or is it causing problems?Â
I was worried that it was an indication of the op having failed. But once he reassured me I’ve forgotten about it now. It’s not causing me any problems. Inter course is fine and I don’t tend to look too much myself. Lol - don’t think anyone is a pretty sight down there after childbirth!Â
Can you see your surgeon for advice? Hope this helps.Â
Jean xÂ
sheila89754 jennifer_08098
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Hi Jennifer
I thought exactly the same as you after my anterior and posterior repair (I had a vaginal hysterectomy too). I could still feel a bulge, looked like ridges!
However my consultant has reassured me I have no prolapses and, like Jean, it is an uretrocele. I do have slight stress incontinence so she is referring me for physiotherapy and I am working hard on pelvic floor exercises. I may have to have a sling but it will be up to me.
I had my surgery ten months ago, internally the healing process takes much longer than I'd anticipated.
I do hope it all works out for you. 😃
welshgirl67 sheila89754
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robyn94818 jennifer_08098
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The suture scars are lumpy bumpy. Maybe that's what you can see. Don't stress about it before you've been checked out. Mesh slings for pelvic floor repairs have been banned in my country recently (New Zealand). I had one Oct. 2016!! My Urogynae convinced me that the percentage of problems are only the same as any other where something foreign is put inside body, I think he said 2-5% may have a problem. Ugh. I'm super worried since it got banned here. I don't have any symptoms thank goodness. And my anterior repair and the sling fixed my prolapse and stress incontinence. Still have rectocoele but I don't think it's got any worse since fixing the rest.
jennifer_08098
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Thanks everyone for your comments. Just feel so deflated without being crude I have been single 3 years and the thought of anyone having to feel down there with this awful ridges/bumps terrifies me feel mutated 😞
welshgirl67 jennifer_08098
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Funny thing ive heard about this before when my first repair failed.
Is this the morm then for us all??xx
heather90386 jennifer_08098
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Six and a half weeks vaginal hysterectomy/ rectocele repair (no mesh), and the vaginal opening still feels shut or closed. Swollen or stitches, maybe? Can't imagine even having sex in 14 to 16 weeks, as at this point, nothing is going in there. Anyone else have this?
sheila89754 heather90386
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Heather
I felt exactly the same, 'no entry'!
My consultant advised that it would be twelve weeks, at that stage it was still almost impossible. Sorry. 😳
It was about five months before things felt vaguely comfortable and I then had granulation at the vaginal vault.
It will get better, but it takes far longer than I thought.
Good luck.
Guest jennifer_08098
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