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I've been in stress due to lack of lilibo and low sperm count

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victoranand
victoranand

Hi! I am 34 year old male.

I have married 5 years ago at 29, doesnot have child.

My wife was conceived 2 years before through IUI due to my sperm count was only 30% motility and later aborted due to immature growth in 3 months.

After that I was found to have sever oligospermia when we tried for next IUI.

Now I am having lack of lilibo and also the simulation is not proper. 

I am unable to have proper sex, Because of this I am into lot of stress and issue and, unable to concentrate on work and also family.

Is this can be cured? 

Which doctor I need to consult and kindly suggest a doctor in Coimbatore, Tamil Nadu.

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  • Pepasan
    Pepasan victoranand

    Posted

    I think you would benefit from seeing a sex therapist, (psychotherapist / relationship counsellor) maybe together with your wife.
  • pattino
    pattino victoranand

    Posted

    Is the masturbation normal? Can you collect enough sperm that way ?
    • Guest
      Guest pattino

      Posted

      .... the method of sperm collection, sex or masturbation would not matter. his body is not creating enough of quality motile sperm - good swimmers who can make it to the goal. its becomes more common as men get closer to their 40s.
  • mark50520
    mark50520 victoranand

    Posted

    This must be very distressing for you.

    Before you go down the psychological route I would suggest you get your testosterone levels measured. Your loss of libido and low sperm count could be caused by low testosterone. Any  doctor should be able to get this test done for you.

  • Guest
    Guest victoranand

    Posted

    Talk to your fertility doctor who did the IUI. There are vitamins and supplements that you can take to help with sperm production - but it takes a while for your old sperm to flush out of your system. You can order them on the internet. 

    If you want to increase motility also stay away from heat and try taking cold showers (some people even ice their testicles as their bodies run too hot). There are people who claim that this really works... even body builders do this to increase testosterone.

    I would take a guess that your lack of libido is due to the stress of it all and pressure that you feel to perform, correct? A therapist, as Pepsan also said would likely be helpful in this situation. It could also help save your relationship. 

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