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I'm 19 years old and I've got nothing to live for I've lost my great grandma my great grandad and a couple of family friends. I have nothing I got no partner no job I feel like I'm losing my will to live. I'm not to sure what to do with myself besides admitting that I'm completely pointless and mentally weak.
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Adldiane lucas42287
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Hello Lucas. I am so sorry for the loss of your grandma and great granddad. I have lost my mother and father and all my grandparents. I am older than you but I lost them in my 30's. I still miss them. It seems to me that you must be grieving. Do you know anyone that you can talk to about how you are feeling or could you see a counsellor? It always helps me to see someone and talk to them when I am sad and feeling like my heart is hurting because I have lost someone that I love. Please write to us and let us know how you are doing. We really care about you. Diane
yasmine333 lucas42287
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Sorry you're feeling like this. You're very lucky to have had time with your Great Grandparents as many people don't get that chance & although any loss is painfully hard to cope with you can cherish those memories of the times you did have.
You're not weak at all, admitting you're struggling & asking for help is perhaps the strongest thing you could've done so you should be proud of yourself for that. Depression can take over every aspect of your life & working can be so difficult but just start part time & see how you feel, don't put any unnecessary pressure on yourself. You could meet anyone at anytime things can change in a second.
You should speak with your doctor about how you're feeling or anyone else you trust to support you.
Take care
luis74497 lucas42287
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You are not pointless are you physically OK because if you are you're lucky It can get worse if your in good health you steal got a chance to get batter just be strong hang on things will get batter that's what I'm doing physical pain every day I haven't had an appetite ion three years back pains can't sleep headache for 2 years and it won't go away my balls hert throght hert it hard but I always looked at it can get worse yes go for walks every day at least for 40 minutes and you will start to feel better and try not to think too much that's my problem
nige20448 lucas42287
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Hi I feel the same I lost my partner and house and job and friends about 4 years ago and now I can't go on much longer I think of all those things I lost 4 years ago 24/7 and can not go forward with life I too feel weak and not strong I feel like a ltitle boy not a man in his 50s doctors keep saying it's depression but after all this time I am not sure I think I just can not deal with the lost and life .
Adldiane nige20448
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nige20448 Adldiane
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Hi Diane yes I am on Meds and have seen lots of people even gone private for help i just can't cope anymore but still want to live in am so scared I would like to go stay with my mate and try to go forward and still have some sort of life but I know soon as I go out down my mates I won't cope I just can't do this much more I am lost.nige
wayne1962 lucas42287
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Hi Lucas - so sorry for your losses and the pain you have endured. I bet your grandma and great grandpa didn't think you were pointless and weak. I'd even bet that they would not want their precious grandson to halt life because they have passed. Have you had any counselling for these losses? Grief counselling? That might be a place to start. A visit to the doc to explain what you are feeling will also be helpful. Sounds like you are stuck in the mud over the changes these losses have wrought in your life. You need help to get yourself out of that - professional help - at 19 years of age you are not expected to do it alone.