im lost and confused!!
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Im a 22 year With dreams and hope when this recently got shattered after i found out that i have herpes!!
My background...
Im a very much sexually active person who has been raped twice by my relatives ( already resolved) and has had an abortikn at the age of 17.however im also very much sporty and physically active. Iv slept wit a total of 7 boys including my current who is my fiance.iv neva used protection.iv been honest with him and iv told him about my history..iv done blood tests and paps smears that showed negative to all diseases..
My fiances background...
My fiance is a person who is socially, sexually and physically active young man..he is 24 and has slept with over 70 + girls with m being his last 1 as we decided to get married..he has had protected and unprotectd sex with those girls but we have been having unprotected sex ever since we got intimate.he has had blood tests is a frequent blood donor who donates every 3 months..
My current situation..
The issue here is that i recently had an outbreak with genital ulcers those associated with herpes..i went to the doctor to get meself checked and treated asap and so was treated..i was advised to take a blood test and so did but awaiting my results. A week ago i had my initial break out and a week before that we have sex..a wild sex whereby i ended up tearing my perineum..a week before that i had a UTI and underwent treatment..but after we had sex recently it ws much painful then previous ones..4 days after that i started to experience painful urination and had this blisters that turned into attentikn.saw the doctor and had treatment.it pretty much is better than It started..
Okay sorry for the long story and history but that it given to help you understnad my situation.the issue here that i wanted to ask is that both he and i have had blood tests that depicted negatives in all..iv noticed that he has sores in his lips but he denies it to be a cold sore.he claims it to be blisters that occurs from smoking a cigerettwe...im lost and confused of what is happening..please. some help!!!
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Sadbuttrue hopeful4eva
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hopeful4eva Sadbuttrue
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neena51943 hopeful4eva
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Just bc ur tests came out neg doesn't mean you never had the virus. Like I said, it lays dormant in ur spine. You won't know if he passed it to you or you've just always had it. What has to happen now is for you two to have protective sex if you are not having any symptoms of a possible breakout. I just found out last week that I have genital herpes. Your life isn't over, it may be a little confusing at first but you just need to take care of yourself.
hopeful4eva neena51943
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Talullah hopeful4eva
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scott1776 hopeful4eva
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I replied to your previous post and hoped it helped you. But this topic about diagnoses and blood test I have no insight on
wish I. Could be more of a help in all area. Let's all keep exchanging information and help each other get better and better.
Good luck once again!
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