In a relationship for over a year. I need help.

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In the past, I was In a relationship for 4 years. I was made to overdose on I pills, as he didn't like use of condoms. Now I've moved on with someone else after 2 years. Current bf knows it all. I am not very interested in sex. However, he insists to get a room every time we meet, for a span of 9+ hours. I know he needs sex. But I feel forced. How can I help the both of us?

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    Find another guy who's on the same level as you are?

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      Hi Damon.Daf,

      From your email I think it's pretty clear what type of person this young lady may have in her life, if in fact you even have anything to do with her. I'm a grown up adult who has probably much more life experience than you do. Issuing threats to somebody that you don't know could potentially be dangerous. However, on this occasion you are safe as I have no interest in meeting with you. Grow a pair and accept that your young partner is feeling so uncomfortable with what is happening in your relationship that she has turned to an internet forum for advice and support. What does that tell you?

      You need to put your energy and thoughts into your relationship and if you actually have any hair on your testicles yet....? Start acting like a gentleman and not a immature adolescent. Think of her and maybe your relationship may blossom before you push her even further away than an internet forum.

      Good luck to the both of you.

      Warmest regards,


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      Hair on testicle?? You are grown up adult right well the hair on testicle are shaved but sorry I'm straight or else I would have asked you to lick them.. don't need your wishes and luck..

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    Also, I'd be having a word with myself... If you've feeling forced them maybe you.are?..Plenty of blokes out there who desire love over sex..... Do what your gut is telling you.x.He safe and happy!

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