Is it menopause or aging?

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Hi,

I've been a member for over a year and have been reading many of the discussions. I am wondering if menopause really has 200+ symptoms, or if some of it is just age. Or are people calling aging menopause?

The reason I question a lot of this is that I had so many of the symptoms before menopause, especially during child-bearing years.

Another thought is that aging men also have similar symptoms; hence making me think some things are simply age related.

Some of the things I've learned aging men have: headaches, pain between shoulder blades, back aches, muscle aches in general, tiredness, low energy, depression, mood swings, edginess, eye aches, vision problems, memory problems (especially, "what was I gonna do/why did I come in this room"?), fuzzy head, ear pain, itchy skin, thinning hair, UTI's, bowel problems, etc. I can go on and on, but the question is: "Is it menopause (hormone related) or just aging?" Or do men go through hormone changes also?

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    I absolutely agree with your comment -question! I sometimes think if my husband is also going through menapause since he seems to have some complaints and only a few years older than me!!??
  • Posted

    Could I ask what have you taken, if anything, to manage the symptoms of peri/menopause?
    • Posted

      nothing. I didn't have any major problems with menopause; mostly vaginal atrophy (over the counter vaginal lubricant for that) I had fibroids my whole life but now they disappeared. Now have polyps but just watching them.

    • Posted

      The combipatch it is amazing!!! I was so sick for 8 months until I got on the patch. Only IBS now. I am on thyroid meds too but my hot flashes, mood swings, heart palps went away when i got on the patch!
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    My man says he suffers too! That's only because he has to deal with me when my issues act up. Men would be totally incapacitated if they suffered throw what I did for over a year. I still went to work and kept up the house. Women deserve to go straight to heaven for what we suffer through!

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      Absolutely agree. I have a mature husband and he dies help around the house etc. But with some health complaint he comes up with makes me crazy. I sometimes think that subconsciously he is competing with my perimenapause symptoms or he is also going through it. I sometimes want to scream and say "I really don't care what you suffer from!" Keep quiet! Aaaarg

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