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Is it Possible you have herpes have consistent sex with your partner and they don’t have tu?

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JCurious
JCurious

ended up having sex with a girl in central America. couple weeks later while i was masturbating with vaseline two painless blisters appeared on Penis. I went to the Doctor and he said it wasnt herpes because i didn’t have an elevated wbc. Got a red rash in different spot with some white discharge from tip a few weeks later and Doctor said it was fungal. Now have gf and after sex with her, i got another rash in the same spot as the first one. went to another and she said it was balanitus, i got another rash like a month after but as it was healing, i had seed with my gf again, a month later i sex with my gf again and the rash came afterwards in the same spot. went back to the Doctor and he said he didn’t know what it was but he one it wasn’t herpes. my gf has been to the Doctor and everything is fine and she doesn’t have any symptoms. the girl from Central America said she's never has any symptoms and neither has her partner. Im freaking out, i want to be with my girl but i dont want to risk giving her anything? please help

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  • JCurious
    JCurious

    Posted

    excuse my typos for the header "IS IT POSSIBLE FOR YOU TO HAVE HERPES, HAVE CONSISTENT SEX WITH PARTNER AND THEY DON’T GET INFECTED"

    ps. the rashes have been different everytime but have been in same spot everytime.

    • sindy86823
      sindy86823 JCurious

      Posted

      Yes is possible , if youre not shedding the virus. I read forums of people having herpes and not infecting their partner for years.

  • sindy86823
    sindy86823 JCurious

    Posted

    You never mentioned wether the sex was protected or not. If it wasnt protected how can u just have sex with your gf without knowing if you caught anything? And if you already had sex with your gf chances are is too late. Go get tested I pray everything is well. There is no way to comment on what it is without photos

    • JCurious
      JCurious sindy86823

      Posted

      sex was not protected but i went to the doctor while having a rash twice before having sex with my gf and I even told her what was going on. they saw it and the doctors still told me it wasnt herpes but i just have my doubts. I’ve even went to the doctors while having a rash after id been had sex with my Gf and doctors still told me it wasn’t herpes. I got tested for STIs the first time, The doctor took my blood and said it wasnt herpes because i didnt have an elevated wbc. ive been tested for STIs again after the first tests. I’m getting tested again when i can but specifically herpes

    • sindy86823
      sindy86823 JCurious

      Posted

      Ok no problem i hope it isnt anything alarming and remember there are worst things out there to catch than herpes. Play it safe

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