Is there a point in telling the doctor?

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A couple of days ago I told the nurse that I suspect I had a heart attack last summer. I don't go to the docs often, and this was the first time in years, and I went due to not having been well for months.

My reason for going wasn't the suspected heart attack last year, but that I've been "knackered" for months, with loads of fevers (and a few infections), and I was worried I had a more serious infection that just a bad tooth or eye.

But due to suspecting a heart attack last year, I thought it would be important to mention as I have also started to get head aches again, and feeling queasy.

I had headaches and felt queasy for 3 weeks straight before my suspected attack.

However, when I said I believed I had a heart attack last year, the nurse laughed and said "what makes you think that at your age?".

When I told her what had happened (I will list it on the end), she dismissed the whole notion by saying "if you'd had a heart attack you would have called emergency services".

Truth to the told, I did not suspect a heart attack as it was happening, I though I was going to die, and the only thing on my mind was that I wasn't going to die outside Lidl!

After testing my blood pressure, which she said was high (I didn't spot the top number, but the bottom one was 96), she agreed to blood tests (this was why I'd gone in).

I called today, and the receptionist said blood work was normal.

Now, I have an appointment on Tuesday with a doctor. Is there any point at all in trying to portray my worries about my heart at all? Or will it be the same belittling treatment that I got from the nurse? Or should I just leave it be, which to be truthful is very tempting indeed after the nurses visit?

I'm not too worried at the moment if I compare how I feel now to last summer, headaches and queasiness is nowhere near what I felt like then, but my heart does occasionally beat to some funky music I clearly cannot hear. smile

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And incase anyone wonders, this is what happened last year, and what I was trying to tell the nurse, as she cut me off, claiming anyone that has a heart attack will immediately call for an ambulance. *sigh*

I'd been feeling unwell for about 3 weeks, headaches and feeling queasy.

One the day of my suspected attack I was clammy, cold sweating and feeling worse than ever.

I had just finished work, and my other half was driving us home when we stopped to get some fresh bread.

The second the car had stopped, I got terrible pain in my lower left lung and left shoulder. The pain was so severe I could only take tiny little shallow breaths.

Told other half I wasn't able to go in with him, and as he shopped, all I could keep thinking was "I am NOT gonna die outside Lidl".

We then drove home, I told other half he would have to take everything in (as I wouldn't have been able to deal with anything).

Staggered though the door, took some Anadin, and just sat on the sofa.

The intense pain only lasted about 20 minutes. After that I still felt unwell, but able to breathe fine.

Next day I had a horrible tension between my shoulderblades and down the back. Like someone had taken out a piece of my body, shrunk it and stuck it back in.

Although feeling weak for weeks after, the headaches and queasiness was gone, and overall I felt much better.

I did google it afterwards, and that was when I suspected it might have been a heart attack. It was especially the sense of doom some get prior to a heart attacks that caught my eye, as the night before I had felt completely suicidal (no worries, no intention of doing it, just the urge to, as everything felt so incredily awful... I feared someone close to me had died, and barely dared to check my phone).

As I now have started to get headaches again, and feeling queasy, I do find it a little worrying, although at the moment my main worry was the constant fevers and feeling lethargic.

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    Hi Cathy

    Sorry only just read all of the posts, due to suffering from chronic heart failure.

    Oral health is very important as decay and infection from the mouth, even in people who look after their teeth is full of bacteria, this can easily penetrate into the blood stream  and cause infection in the heart.

    Now that you have your Echo results I would advise you to contact the Cardiomyopathy Association, www.cardiomyopathy.org, or the British Heart Foundation, they have trained medical staff that can advise you on your results, explain what the terms mean, explain your symtoms history, good idea to write a list and brief  history of what has happened, they will be able to advise you on the best course of action to progress through the NHS system to get  a correct diagnosis and what treatment may be available for your condition.

    This post has gone away from the main concens that you had and 2 months down the line not a lot wiser, I suspect you may need the valves replacing, which is causing your symptoms  ans possibly other issues, I am a patient and not medically qualified with Dialted cardiomyopthy since 1981, my condition has progressed and now under the Papworth Transplant outpatient Team to manage the condition, I have built up a lot of knowledge through the Cardiomyopathy Association and I am a Key Contact Support. I believe that your symptoms will get worse untreated and it can take a long time to see the correct people, you need to be speaking to medically trained and qualified people to help you get the best possible outcome as soon as possible, please contact them asap, as your story will be a familiar one to them and the treatment that you have received locally is all too common. Their main aim to to help people like yorself that are struggling to be taken seriously and to get correct diagnoses and treatment, poor health is not to be taken lightly and you need to look after yourself.

    Hope you get this resolved soon and feeling better in the not too distant future.

       

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    Hi

    You definitely need to tell the doctor there are tests which can reveal a heart attack.

    In the meantime try some ubiquinol, start with 3 a day for a couple of weeks then reduce to 1 a day.

    My husband did this and his heart function went from 29 to 43 per cent in 4 weeks and his energy levels improved. He had heart surgery and pericarditis.

    Good luck, hope you feel better soon.

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    I'd go and ask the GP "Do you think it could have been?" Say that you'd really like to see if the heart's OK. An ECG can't tell you if you are about to have a heart attack - but can see if there's significant damage from one.

    Women often report different heart attck symptoms from men and can have "silent" heart attacks. That said - it could have been angina  - or a whoole raft of other things. Please go and get tested.

    And all good wishes.

     

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    Hi Cathy 

    Sorry to hear of  all the problems you have had with your docters sounds appalling 😞

    But don't  tie them all with the same brush that's just silly ...thats like getting a bad haircut and slaging off all the hairdressers 😅😅..you mention you don't go much thou I'd still advise to change your docters 

    You couldn't make that up ,hope this reaches you in good health ...you don't mention your age in the post how old are you ?

    Regards

    Docter D x

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