Is this all my fault? Do I bring it on myself?
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So I have been accused of being self obsword by someone extremely close too me, which has broke my heart. I have really bad chronic anxiety and am extremely depressed right now. I'm seeing a specialist on Monday and a cardiologist the week after. This has been weighing heavily on me as I can't help but worry no matter how hard I try to distract myself, I find it really hard to enjoy things, everything seems to become too much for me lately and I break down.
So this has led to a bit of a horrible discussion, I was out with this person and I couldn't relax at all, I was having panic attacks left right and centre and just closed up. I hardly spoke or made any sort of conversation and couldn't keep still, it was horrendous, then all of a sudden they turned around and said ''It must be so good to be so self obsord, and not care about anyone else but yourself'' I was so shocked and froze. I tried so hard to try and enjoy myself but couldn't. That's all I seem to have lately is people of accusing me of things like being a liar, an attention seeker and now this.
Why would I make myself feel like this on purpose? Why are people so horrible when it comes to mental health? π₯
I'm actually really proud of myself for even being in large crowds, I was fighting back, despite feeling so terrible. I fought all day long! And so hard too. They know how hard things have been this past month. I feel like everybody is turning against me. The only person who I can talk too about it is my dad. π₯
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lily72326 Arya287
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Davesoapbox lily72326
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I think you captured it perfectly and Arya Lily is right we are here for you, stay strong,myou are amazing just like all the rest of us. We didn't chose out illness but we live our lives with it. We are no better than anyone else but we sure as heck are not worse.
you have our support
David
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As we all know, its a tough road. But I believe each and every one us CAN beat this. π XxX
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Bellaathome Arya287
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stacey87853 Arya287
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What is the other problem you have with your heart if you dont mind me asking?
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stacey87853 Arya287
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I had an x ray on it when i was 2 and they found out ive got scolioisis, im always back and fourth to hospital and always cry there so dont worry im sure they are used to it.
With my anxiety when im at my wosrt i get a bad feeling, it feels like im panicing Β inside but it wont come out if this makes sence? When this happens my heart races. do Β you get this feeling? My drs put me on a tab called proparanol (sorry if mispelt) which is a beta blocker and slows heart rate and is ment to be good for anxiety...
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Arya287 stacey87853
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The doctors told my parents I'd probably grow out of it, I did a lot of sports growing up and was up mountains all the time running about, everyone has told me I wouldn't have been able to do those things either if it was a serious problem, they're all trying to tell me its the anxiety and panic etc which I know deep down it is, but won't be convinced until this cardiologist tells me other wise. π Ah dear me.
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