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I fear my ex almost pushes problems on our children. For example:
o My son is rambunxious, he MUST have ADHD and starts pushing her self-diagnosis on educators etc.
o My daughter doesn't perform well on tests in school, so she MUST have a learning disability and starts pushing her self-diagnosis on the eductators, etc.
o My son doesn't like being told what to do, so he MUST have an underlying issue, and starts self-diagnosing
And just goes on and on. I don't know how best to describe it, but it feels like she is continuously looking for sources of "problems" which are external and/or not her fault...and not things she could possibly overcome or be responsible for.
Child behaviors, for example, must be phsyiological/psychological and couldn't possibly be due to our parenting.
Does this make sense at all?
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