ive been worried for a few days

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i belive my ex may have had something but everytime i ask she says shes clean , now my boyfriend Gave me head , he says he got a white bump on the side of his mouth but i belive its been there , i never had any symptoms , but if i got blood drawn for something else wouldnt they have told me that i had herpes ? , ive never had bumps on my mouth or vagina , but im worried someone help

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  • Posted

    I'm not positive but I think when a doctor orders bloodwork it is usually for a specific thing. I get bloodwork taken regularly for high cholesterol but he never mentioned anything about having herpes until I was specifically tested for that.

    • Posted

      True , my boyfriend told

      me that it was just a white head on his mouth , he was able to pop it , it was white stuff that came out , it with right away. so im not sure that i have anything but im not sure

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      There is herpes 1 and 2. One is oral and 2 is genital. I read that it was thought that neither was transmittable to the other area but then I read that it could. Here is what I read.

      HSV-1 is usually passed from person to person by kissing. HSV-1 can also spread from the mouth to the genitals during oral sex (fellatio, cunnilingus, analingus). If this happens, it becomes a case of genital herpes.

      HSV-2 is most often passed by vaginal sex and anal sex. But just as HSV-1 can infect the genitals and cause genital herpes, HSV-2 can pass from one person's genitals to another person's mouth, resulting in oral herpes.

      HSV-2 cannot survive long on a non-living surface

  • Posted

    Have either of you been tested for herpes?
    • Posted

      no we havent been tested because he thinks that im good because we took pics before he ate me out , the bump was already there , it was just a pimple , so we dont think its anything
  • Posted

    Well, I hope that it isn't herpes for your sake because I was devastated because of this. I am almost 66 years old and just found out a few months ago. When I told my boyfriend he said that I could have gotten it from him because he was in another relationship where the person he was with could have had it. He says he has never gotten symptoms of it. I was told by a partner from 16+ years ago that he found out he had it and that was way back then. So the doctor said that I could have gotten it from him and it just came out now or I got it from this new guy that I have been seeing since January. He hasn't gotten tested but I hope that he will.

    • Posted

      Thank you 💯 & my mom just told me when they drawn my blood they tested for everything , so im sure they would of told me if i had anything 💯 thank you though

    • Posted

      You're welcome and good wishes as you move forward. 

       

    • Posted

      No cold sores. Just have had the genital sores.
    • Posted

      Oh Okay , i dont have any sores At all , but im still paranoid but my

      mom told me i have nothing to worry about because they would of told me on my blood test a few weeks ago , but i just worry about everything

    • Posted

      Well, I'm glad to hear you don't have it. Be safe. It's no fun to have.

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