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Just so sad, but am I selfish?

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sam18386
sam18386

I don't normally comnent on here but I wss so upset and have been since yesterday. I feel bad as I've been denied IVF, was raped twice and now someone who doesn't even know me wants to deny me fostering or adoption chances. I feel I've now lost everything, I may as well jump. I can't do this any more. No-one understanfs me, no-one. Just keep sobbing. Just so tearful.

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  • anna17409
    anna17409 sam18386

    Posted

    Sometimes life really sucks. But maybe there is a genuine reason for denying you IVF. Have you tried therapy. You certainly need it. Just talking to someone who will listen and help you is enough. Just hang in there. If there are bad times now the good times are just around the corner. Maybe God has something better planned for you. I always feel that if we are denied anything we so badly want then there is something better planned for us. I have experienced it many times and totally believe in it. Why dont you take it one day at a time. Go out and have fun. Talk to a close friend or family. Dont do anything to hurt yourself. Where there is life thete is always hope.😊😊😊

    • sam18386
      sam18386 anna17409

      Posted

      You kind lady, thank you. I went to bed in tears last night, you havr cheered me up. I have counsellling sorted as I just couldn't cope any more. I will get my child some day, I'm fighting hard enough.

  • k8861
    k8861 sam18386

    Posted

    Hi..whats the reason may I ask, fir no fostering or adoption chances?
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