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Just when you think things can't get worse

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fee25
fee25

So I was followed home, broken into, hurt and robbed. The only two items worth anything my phone and my computer gone, taken by a sick and horrible man. And the police are so uninterested it's ridiculous! I have no money, I can't replace these items and my whole life is on that computer, my videos, pictures, my work, memories from when I was happy and all the videos of my beloved dogs who have now passed. All gone. 

It may sound overdramatic but I just want to die. I want to bow out. I cannot stand living in a world so full of cruel horrible people! I have absolutely nothing and have had to go back to my parents house now. My GP isn't interested, counselling isn't making a difference. I am totally worthless and this has just been the push I needed. I am so done with this absolute rubbish that we call life! It just is not fair!

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  • claudia90123
    claudia90123 fee25

    Posted

    Oh no! I'm so sorry. I wish I could give you a hug. It's not over dramatic, I can relate to feeling pushed beyond endurance; I wish I could do something for you. I'm so sorry x
    • fee25
      fee25 claudia90123

      Posted

      Thank you Claudia sad it wasn't the start to 2016 that I was hoping for x
  • patricia44773
    patricia44773 fee25

    Posted

    That's terrible, I am so sorry, Fee.  I think you are quite within your rights to feel as bad as you do.

    Yes, there are some terrible people in this world, that is why we need the good people like you to stay around.  Don't let the dregs of humanity win.

    You will be in my thoughts.

    Love

    Pat xxxxx

    • fee25
      fee25 patricia44773

      Posted

      I genuinely just can't comprehend how anyone could steal from another person, let alone hurt them and take advantage of these situations. It just makes no sense to me. If I was him I would be wracked with guilt and he won't even give me a second thought, it's a nice chunk of change in his pocket. 

      Thank you for your continued support Pat, it means a lot xxx

  • audrey96558
    audrey96558 fee25

    Posted

    My God that is absolutely horrendous!

    What a scum bag stealing from you and hurting you. I hope the person gets caught and brought to justice.

    I have experienced something similar and can still remember the terror and pain it caused me; you have my deepest sympathies.

    But do not let this person, this nasty horrible person, be the catalyst to your demise. You are better than him.

    You are a good, kind person going through a very rough patch, you are in no way worthless, don't let your last act on this earth to be in any way inspired by this heartless thief.

    Stay strong, remember you're brilliant, and we all may be miles away but we are thinking of you, supporting you and loving you.

    Please keep on pushing through each day, I know it's tough, but you're already doing better than you know.

    All my love and best wishes xxxxx

    • fee25
      fee25 audrey96558

      Posted

      Thanks Audrey xxx I am just so sick of these horrible, nasty people intent on hurting other people and acting so selfishly. I don't understand it at all. sad xxx
  • orange12933
    orange12933 fee25

    Posted

    Do you know this person? I would go back to the police and get in contact with your lawyer or solicitor.
    • orange12933
      orange12933

      Posted

      I was nearly raped once and it's only taken me the courage now to get the help I need. Nobody deserves to have anything stolen or hurt in any way. Xxx
    • fee25
      fee25 orange12933

      Posted

      I don't know him, he was a stranger that started following me, he was about 20 years older than me. The police say as there's no CCTV and because it was a busy night they can't do much. I have been raped, November last year and I have been struggling with that so much. This man came into my home, lay on top of me, grabbed me and hit me and then when I managed to push him off and lock myself in the bathroom, he took my things and left sad How can somebody be so heartless and pathetic? I hate this sad 
  • lorraine52317
    lorraine52317 fee25

    Posted

    Hi fee

    I'm lost for words, how dreadful and terribly sad that this has happened to you. I wish I could make this situation a little better for you, but words will not bring back your treasured memories which you kept on your pc and mobile. In addition the actions of this chap have left you traumatised and fragile. I wish the police could have supported you more. It's so difficult to catch these random opportunists, that's why they continue to plague our streets and ruin many lives in their wake. I may be able to get you nice second hand laptop if that helps fee?

    I mean it and its not an idle offer. I know it won't replace your memories, but at least you have an operating system to enable you to do things on line.

    Bless you and so sorry this has happened to you ♥

    • fee25
      fee25 lorraine52317

      Posted

      It's the videos and pictures of my dogs, my trips away, the good memories from the good times sad and my work, projects I slaved over and put so much time and effort into. That macbook computer was my everything, my life in digital form. Aw Lorraine, that is such an unbelievably kind offer, my dad has a spare mini laptop so I will be able to make do for now but your offer means a lot to me, thank you <3 

      i just cannot comprehend people who act in that way. how you could hurt and steal from somebody, i will just never understand. xxx i="" just="" cannot="" comprehend="" people="" who="" act="" in="" that="" way.="" how="" you="" could="" hurt="" and="" steal="" from="" somebody,="" i="" will="" just="" never="" understand.="">

      i just cannot comprehend people who act in that way. how you could hurt and steal from somebody, i will just never understand. xxx>

    • lorraine52317
      lorraine52317 fee25

      Posted

      I truly believe in karma! He won't benefit from doing this to you fee xx

      so very sorry this happened and I hope and pray he makes a mistake and slips up..be nice to hear that he spent good time in the cells! !

      And if you don't get your hands on your dad's laptop, let me know ♥

    • orange12933
      orange12933 lorraine52317

      Posted

      There are some sick people around. The person who tried to rape me was around 20 years older and I managed to get away quickly out the door but I'll never trust a man 100% ever again!
  • hypercat
    hypercat fee25

    Posted

    Oh fee I am so sorry this has happened to you as it's the last thing you need at the moment.  Karma will get this man - I know this and have seen it at work many times before.  

    Most people aren't like this and the good ones far outnumber sicko's like this.  Were you badly hurt?  I hope not.  

    You are right it isn't fair,  but unfortunately it is part of life and most people have had some type of crime commited against them - I know I have had several.  Don't let this man's actions beat you darling,   show you are stronger and will overcome this.  Because you will,  maybe not at the moment as you must still be in shock.   Stay with your parents for as long as you need to and regroup.  You have the strength you know,  you just have to dig deep to find it.  You are far too young to be thinking of giving up.   A big hugs for you love.  Bev xx

  • orange12933
    orange12933 fee25

    Posted

    Could the police not track this guy down through your laptop? Through Internet IP addresses etc. I'm here for support if you need to talk. There are a lot of nasty people out there and in my opinion not enough help is out there for certain victims of crime, that's why we all need to keep going and not let these people ruin our lives as we are the stronger people, not them who are weak and selfish. Xxx
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