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marie79573
marie79573

Hi everyone,

Just found out after my second round of clomid that it hasn't worked, and was devastated. 

Then found out that a quite literally my 6th friend in six weeks is pregnant, basically by accident. 

I feel like screaming and throwing things, it just seems so unfair that everyone around me isn't having to try, yet we are struggling so much... Especially because all 6 of my friends had been ttc for way less time than us.

Any suggestions for how to deal with the anger, disappointment and frustration? 

Thanks so much xo

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  • chloe78588
    chloe78588 marie79573

    Posted

    I haven't myself dealt with this issue as of yet, but I think patience, not stressing, etc could help? If you're stressed out and emotional your hormones will be all over the lace, which won't help if you're trying to conceive, just stay positive, it will happen!☺️
    • marie79573
      marie79573 chloe78588

      Posted

      Thanks - I'm sure you're right, and I have been trying to keep calm and keep things in perspective. Just seems a lot easier said than done! ... And ps, yet another friend told me yesterday they are expecting! Just unreal. 
  • Catherine2405
    Catherine2405 marie79573

    Posted

    I hope you are doing well.  

    There are plenty of forums out there for us women who are having to deal with the pregancy envy when it wont come quite so easy .  You arent alone in the way you are feeling (which is a sad statement in itself) and plenty of suggestions out there on how to deal with it, but when all said and done its just a bit rubbish (would use a stronger word but thought better of it). 

    Good Luck .x

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