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Lacking to clean

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jacqueline06286
jacqueline06286

Has any one when they first started perimenapause lacking to clean and things around the house due to all these symptoms, I haven't been the same since I started perimenapause I can't don't have any energy if it ain't the one side of head ear or neck,I just am loosing interst .I us to be a go getter but now I just want to stay home and not do anything.

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  • maria76995
    maria76995 jacqueline06286

    Posted

    Hi, yes you just came on here and put the right post up,I find I can't clean to much my house getting messy but I try clean it I notice in June Last year when my symptoms got better I started painting mixing back with people eating well planning things and sence of getting on and last..come November the crap all return and there me goes out the window again and I wonder if I will feel like how I was back then again.

    • maria76995
      maria76995

      Posted

      I'm out peri this month too but the crap will still have a dig.

  • sarah97953
    sarah97953 jacqueline06286

    Posted

    Yes I too have felt that. Can’t be bothered .....best thing to do is just go with it.  Don’t have an internal battle about cleaning the house. What does it matter.  If you leave it for weeks and then feel up to it, do it then. What is the worst that can happen. Just let it go until it passes xxx
  • ImagineOneDay
    ImagineOneDay jacqueline06286

    Posted

    Certainly. I can't get through daily routines. No interest or energy. Mess is everywhere! Even if I try to tidying I just don't know how to do anymore. I take something from here and put it over there.. So I re-locate the mess! I get tired and frustrated. I just don't know HOW anymore.

    My husband us very tidy and organised. So the gap between us now is even bigger. I don't know how he copes with me.

    • jacqueline06286
      jacqueline06286 ImagineOneDay

      Posted

      May I ask when did you started perimenapause and what sort of symptoms did you had or have,I started 3 months ago and I feel so not myself anymore alote of different symptoms it all started back in September with diverticulitis then 3 weeks later severe gastritis, fatigue lathargic, dizzy just last month been having pain behind my right ear head shoulder neck some day's it's not so bad still there but other days it's worst I'm wondering will it ever subside

  • aishling39060
    aishling39060 jacqueline06286

    Posted

    Your not in your own im feeling just like you right now.
    • aishling39060
      aishling39060 jacqueline06286

      Posted

      Im 46 now .but my 40s I must say have been hurrendous so far still have periods but im generaly bubbly work in emergency services. Recently hit me like a ton of bricks.anxious depressed sad palps worried want to stay in bed no house work done .still happening feel awful took time off work.
    • ImagineOneDay
      ImagineOneDay aishling39060

      Posted

      I am sorry to hear it. But beleive you me you are not alone! I know exactly and it is very very hard! Have a good rest & take care

  • Guest
    Guest jacqueline06286

    Posted

    YES.  I struggle with this all the time now.  Everything is disorganized.  I’m trying to simplify possessions, cleaning, etc., but it’s hard. 
    • Guest
      Guest jacqueline06286

      Posted

      I’ve got an exercise routine going that is helping and have lost a little weight.  I couldn’t stand myself anymore and it does give me a sense of control.  However, there are still some bad times with severe anxiety, sadness, etc.  My periods are irregular and last couple of cycles have been 45 days apart or so.  But the exercise bike is really helping with physical strength and I’ve made huge changes in my diet.
    • ImagineOneDay
      ImagineOneDay jacqueline06286

      Posted

      Yes, fatigue especially crashing fatigue is absolutely dreadfully. When that happens you cannot lift a finger. sad
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