Leaving because of being Mentally unstable

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So to get straight to the point of been in a relationship for over a year. I keep thinking I'm bringing my boyfriend down by being mentally unstable and constantly crying all the time and constantly being depressed. He says it's fine and that he loves me anyway. Should I leave or stay.

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  • Posted

    hi oliver, give yourself a bit of a break! your partner wouldn't be there if they didn't want to be. simple! have faith! 😁

  • Posted

    right now the main thing you should focus on is getting yourself feeling better. You can’t be a loving giving or happy partner when you are going through depression. it will always get in the way.

    Get some counseling and speak with your doctor about this. You need some support so that you can feel whole again. you may possibly need medication but that’s up to the doctor.

    take one step at a time and one day at a time. That doesn’t mean you have to break up with your boyfriend but you could slow things down for now. talk to him and tell him that you plan on getting some help and that you want to be in the right frame of mind so that the relationship will be healthier. you getting help for this would make your relationship stronger because you are caring for yourself which will have a positive impact on your relationship. Hope you feel better soon

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