Little tear in frenulum ? Warning Pics

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Hello, i underwent circumcision surgery and a frenuloplasty surgery in the past half year.

Now i have a problem with my frenulum i noticed today i have what i think is a small tear in my frenulum or a wound of some kind.

Like it's coming loose on one side.

What's the best option for me ?

I had 3 dick surgeries in the past 7 months and i really had enough to be honest, and my dick surgery sense is tingling so bad right now that i know deep inside i might have to undergo dick surgery again. Which would be the fourth time in less then a year which is insane...

I'm kinda hoping this will heal up or that it isn't a tear cause i really don't know what a tear on the frenulum looks like. Im making a apointment with my urologist tomorrow because its like a month long wait, and in the meanwhile i would love to hear your opinion on this.Sorry for my bad english i speak dutch.

Regards

John

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  • Posted

    There certainly seems to be something wrong, but unless it is painful, it may be something you can live with. Alternatively, given the surgery you have had, surely your surgeon should be willing to make any adjustment as part of the follow-up to the work previously done.
  • Posted

    Hello John, your English is perfect! Why were you circumcised in the first place? Is there any pain whatsoever on your frenulum?
    • Posted

      Hey Tangki thanks for the comment smile

      I was circumcised because i had phimosis, but before that i had my frenulum done because i also had a short frenulum.

      There is no pain on my frenulum whatsoever so far but i can feel that there's a bit much to tention on that area. So maybe further action is necessary..

      I posted links above to topics i made on a dutch medical website about the previous operations i had.

       

  • Posted

    use pure castor oil, don't buy the cheap kind. should cost about $7. Google it, for eyes, anal fissures (that's tear in the anus)

    • Posted

      Thanks for the advice smile i'll try that out. I have made an apointment with my urologist to have a look at this because i know if ill have to rough sex it will tear further. So i think i need to get my frenulum redone.

      I think i had the operations in the wrong order i first had the frenuloplasty & after that the circumcision, so i wouldn't be surprised if my surgeon is going to say that the effects of the frenuloplasty operation were reversed by the circumcision which also makes sense in my mind.

      I don't know really but i'm just trying to make sense of this, but it sucks that i might have to undergo a fourth operation..

  • Posted

    surgery sounds drastic, by the way I have had tears on my shaft too. I also am circumcised. when a girl has rough sex with me she tears me up, pun intended lol anyway I use pure castor oil. Good Luck Bro.
    • Posted

      I know it sounds drastic sad i used to had tears on my shaft to before the circumcision because of the tightness but that's all gone now. But i think the frenulum part might be to tight in my case...

      The crust on my shaft is already gone and that was still from the operation, so since my circumcision i had 0 tears except for the one on the frenulum area.

      I'm masturbating like a mad man last days to see if it will tear further.

      Will try to meet a girl this weekend for the ultimate test.

      Maybe the opening was there from the beginning i really don't know.. it never bled or hurted.

      I'll really know the 24st when i have my apointment.

  • Posted

    If you keep it moisturized it'll be less likely to tear.

    It's not recommended but you can essentially do a controlled tear but without the healing. All you need to do is put a piece of string through the opening and tie the string like you would a knot. Do it very tightly and that part of the frenulum will loose blood supply and die off. I have patients who do it and report that they felt hardly any pain whatsoever. That and they didn't have the huge medical bill. Good luck and keep us update on what you are going to do!

    • Posted

      I'm going to try the castor oil smile. But how do you mean controller tear ? There is no hole in the frenulum only that opening on one side on the other side there's no opening.

      But could it be the opening was there from the beginning ? I masturbated yesterday night like it was my last day on earth and still no further tearing. It never bled or no fluids have come out nor did it hurt.

      I have a apointment however with my urologist on the 24'st of April.

      And yeah the medical bill is the least of my worries because i live in Belgium the last operation cost me like 14 € lol.

      Shout out to all to the ppl who have to pay ridiculous amounts of money to get the help they need.

      I'm very curious about what will happen now and what the urologist is gonna say.

      I really hope no 4th operation but if it must be done i'll do it.

      And thanks bro i will keep you all updated about this situation.

      I'm just afraid if i will have rough sex it will come loose, i will continue to test drive it by w*****g like a crazy b*****d.

       

  • Posted

    I thought that dark marj was an opening on uoir firsy picture. Just disregard what I said if you don't have an opening there.

  • Posted

    I thought that dark mark was an opening on your first picture. Just disregard what I said if you don't have an opening there.

    Sorry about the first comment, I was tired haha

    • Posted

      Np bro smile !

      No it's just open on one side like it came loose a bit... I guess i'll just have to wait and see what my urologist is going to say about this.

      I also don't know it the opening was there from the beginning or not or if the surgeon left it on purpose like this...

      But i don't think this is normal to have a opening there or am i wrong ?

  • Posted

    Do you have any photo of your penis before any surgical procedures? I'm wondering whether you ever had a problem that could not have been corrected without surgery, or if you misunderstood that we all have a frenulum that pulls between the glans and the foreskin (like under the tingue in the mouth).??

    • Posted

      sorry 'tongue', not 'tingue'!

    • Posted

      No sorry i don't have any pictures from before the surgical procedures.

      So before all this i used to get small papercut wounds on my foreskin because it was to tight, i looked at my penis and saw the frenulum was way to short.

      So i went to the hospital they looked at it and said we'll have to do a frenuloplasty. 

      Did that & after recovering i noticed it still was way to tight.

      Did some research and looked like i had phimosis.

      Went back to the hospital got the news about the circumcision, i said ok lets do this.

      After that the circumcision was done very poorly so i had to go back for correction surgery.

      And now i'm here with this new problem.

      And yeah i understand that, but in my case it may still be to tight...

    • Posted

      The occasional problem I've had with tightness has also caused little cuts all around the tip of my foreskin, they didn't bleed but were sore. Luckily using moisturising cream has always freed it up, and restored it to easy gliding back and forth over my glans.  Did you explore stretching techniques before agreeing to the full circumcision? There's a contributor on this forum called Wee Dugie who with great patience over some years successfully stretched and so avoided circumcision.

    • Posted

      Yeah i tried stretching but i didn't have the patience for it so i went for the circumcision.

      And yeah i had the same problem when i wasn't circumcised ! The cuts wouldn't heal so good because everytime i masturbated or had sex they'd come back. That's the main reason i decided to do the circumcision.

      Well i really hope my urologist can help me and shed some light on this.

      Even if it has to be operated on i will be very happy when this is solved and i can live a penis problem free life. I was good 2 months but then this problem popped up.

      Could it be that i had the operations in the wrong order ?

      I first had the frenuloplasty and after that the circumcision, i think it would be better if the circumcision was done first and after that the frenuloplasty...

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