Living alone for the first time - help
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I've recently moved into an apartment where I'll be living alone for the first time.
During the move I suffered severe anxiety due to over thinking the costs of renting - I suffer with bipolar and in a manic episode last year I took out loans I couldn't afford. I can afford to pay them off but it will be tight (about £50 spare after all bills and groceries - a friend mentioned applying for PIP but not sure I'd be eligible).
However, a week since moving in I've calmed down worrying about finances slightly but now I just cannot function alone. My boyfriend will be around as much as he can without actually moving in, but like now he has returned home and I'm a mess. I feel so down and sad and tearful.
I can't stop crying because I feel completely out of my comfort zone.
Getting a roommate isn't an option as it's a tiny place. I've decided to get a second job in a pub to get me out of the home a few nights a week but I cannot face doing this alone. I have lots of neighbours who have been lovely so far but I can't rely on them as they're strangers and don't know anything about me.
Can anyone offer tips etc to help me cope with this horrible feeling of being alone?
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lynne82155 kage100
Posted
You have to get to the route of the problem why your anxious or depressed
then you may be able to live comforably in your own home.
If you have pushed yourself too far and cant afford the place then you have to decide what you want your health or a place of your own
You dont say if your on medication and therapy is a good idea.
Pip is for people who have problem looking after themselves not for people who can work two jobs.
Perhaps a bigger place and then you can have housemates to help with rent
Take Care
kage100 lynne82155
Posted
I thought the same about PIP but a friend who also suffers with bipolar was accepted - she works 3 jobs but is struggling to afford the debt she has as a result from mania.
kirk05478 kage100
Posted
I'll be praying for you.
Kirk :-)
kage100 kirk05478
Posted
Thank you xx
stephen_85858 kage100
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kage100 stephen_85858
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It's shameful as I try to come across as a very together person but I'm breaking and struggling in my new home. It doesn't feel like home at all.
sharla_94860 kage100
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Best wishes!