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livingtestimony
livingtestimony

Iam scared that i will be alOne forever i will never have children im still copping with the fact that this was done to me i was so young i didn't know

now i feel like im paying for it an living life its a double SLAP IN THE FACE i THINK about dieng but i dont want to i want to have a life

im so hurt i dont no myself anymore everyone that get close to me i hurt them an i cant stand it i got to lie an say its other things but its not ITS THIS herpes i hate the fact that i cant feel raw sex anymore i cant love someone deeply anymore no one will ever love me like this im just so lost i need someone to talk to that really understand **tears**

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  • feelbroken
    feelbroken livingtestimony

    Posted

    We'll, logically that is just not the case. All 6 of my friends that I know w herpes, are w someone. 5 are married w kids, 1, in multiple long term relationships over the course of 8yrs and has never had a rejection and 1 married twice w herpes and having a kid w him too. I disclosed to an old flame and he didn't even blink. I just didn't want to be w him for other reasons.
  • ash63434
    ash63434 livingtestimony

    Posted

    Someone will come into your life and love you, just hang in there. Everything will be alright smile
  • qwertytrewq
    qwertytrewq livingtestimony

    Posted

    Don't be so sad were in the exact same situation if you want to talk you can text me , maybe you can feel a little better if you talk with someonemgoing trough the same experience , maybe we have to look at this in a different way , remember it's a skin condition not a terminal disease we will be okay , God will find a way , everything happens for a reason , maybe we were stupid but so many people have gotten over it and so can we ! It will not be as bad as people sometimes say
  • btp65
    btp65 livingtestimony

    Posted

    I feel your pain so much. I recently met my Ms Perfect and after 3 dates told her about my condition. She appeared really relaxed about it and I thought an added bonus her sister was formally a nurse in the Sandyford clinic. The morning after she had spoken to her sister she told me she couldn't see me any more. To say I'm gutted is putting it mildly. On the other hand I've had a few relationships that were ok with it. You've just got to keep trying. 
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