Looking for words of encouragement

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Hallo all. Just looking for some words of encouragement. I know all will be well and I will finally get my life back, but I'm still very anxious about my hip replacement surgery on Thursday (31st). I keep bursting into tears! Must get a grip.

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    jenny

    i am 7 weeks post THR and i have been walking the dog over hill and through fields without a stick or any pain for the past few weeks. i knew all would be well by my third week. Be kind to yourself, do your exercises ( BUT not more than they say) and be patient. Any pain from the op reduces quickly and stiffness eases every day. i had a general anaesthetic and was home after 3 days with no ill after effects. Believe all will be well and trust your surgeon! Good luck x

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      Thank you so much, Margaret. I am worried about being in pain afterwards, but I'm sure it will be manageable. How lovely it will be to walk again without wincing, gasping, shuffling...

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    Don't be too concerned about posts from people with difficulties in recovery. Naturally anyone with a problem is much more likely to post than the uneventful ones who don't have the same need for advice and reassurance.

    So it might appear that difficulties are much more common than they really are. In fact this is one of the safest and most successful procedures out there. You will love the result .

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      I agree with John, most people post on forums with issues and experiences, it's harder to find the positive stories out there. it's the same with customer surveys online and in shops. How many people take the time to post positive thoughts? I'd say about 8/100. Whereas if someone's got something to complain about it's probably more like 80/100 likely to post something. Keep positive, don't listen to your inner demons 😉👍🏼

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      Thanks, John. I've received so many lovely responses. All very comforting.

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    Hi Jenny, try not to worry. Easier said than done, I know. I am nearly a year post LTHR and pain free. I had sedation and spinal block and it was fine. Felt very well afterwards. I would say two weeks after is probably worst time for recovery, but that was due to readjusting and not sleeping too well, but now I have been on a walking holiday to Austria and regularly go nordic walking. Wishing all the best.

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      Thank you, Sarah. It must be wonderful to go on walking holidays. It will be wonderful to get my life back; everything at the moment revolves around my poor old leg.

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    Hi Jenny

    I endorse what everyone else says about the op and the recovery period.

    I remember being quite weepy beforehand; my hip failed and I had the op arranged so quickly that I hadn't time to take it on board and cope with planning for my life being turned upside-down. I think I was in a mild state of shock, certainly panic. That stage wasn't easy; I coped by planning, keeping busy, doing the pre-op exercises recommended by my surgeon, and reorganising my life.

    My life was upside-down for about 3 weeks, then steady improvement all the way. I'm 74. My op was 8 months ago exactly. I'm now hiking, swimming and playing tennis again, and working in London twice a week (necessitating train and tube travel). Looking forward to skiing next year (I was told 12 months for that).

    The improvement keeps improving in small ways that you scarcely notice. eg I suddenly realised this week that I've started lifting my right (operated) leg first when putting on pants and trousers, which I certainly was not doing a month ago.

    Be brave, keep busy, and allow yourself to panic a bit. It will all be fine sooner than you can imagine.

    Joan

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      Thank you, Joan. I went into a bit of a spin when I was first told I needed a replacement - I thought I'd just have another steroid injection and all would be well. My husband and children (aged 19 and 15) will be a great support, but I think I'm worried about the pain level after the operation. I'll just take the drugs and work through it. Your kind words are a great comfort, Thank you again.

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    Hi Jenny

    There aren't too many people who look forward to surgery and feeling anxious about it is not unusual. Try to think ahead to when you will no longer have to deal with a wonky hip... . I'm 5 months post LHR and tried to keep myself busy before the operation to stop me thinking about it. Even though I had right hip done 5 years ago, I was still anxious. However, very very quickly, the whole thing was over. As others say, you can look forward to steady and continuing improving soon after the op.

    Best wishes

    Joan

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      Thank you, Joan. I feel very comforted by all these lovely responses. I will have a lot of support from my lovely family when I get home, so I'm sure all will be well x

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    Hi Jenny, I think we probably all felt anxious pre op, I certainly did, but the whole thing was so much better than I was expecting. Like many other people on the forum I had a spinal with sedation, brilliant. I couldn't believe how comfortable my hip felt afterwards. That horrible bone on bone pain had gone. (Most likely because the hospital give excellent pain relief.!)

    When you get home do your exercises, take your pain meds, rest when you need to. After the first couple of weeks you should hopefully feel so much better. (I hated the nights but the days were fine!) Good luck!

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      Thank you, Judith. Reading all these responses has been enormously comforting. I've stocked up on good books on my Kindle for when I'm inevitably awake half the night!

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    sounds like me! I also burst into tears going into theatre. One thing that often isnt acknowledged is the fear and emotional impact of this whole process, even post op. You in all likelihood will be fine, all of the evidence points to that. Its ok to feel scared and anxious. You will be ok xx

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      Thank you. I have a lovely family and friends who are keen to rally round...until my shiny new hip is no longer a novelty 😃 No doubt I shall shed a few more tears before Thursday, but I'm really comforted by everyone's words x

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