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Hi everyone, I was just wondering if men go through a sort of change, I have been married 23 years (together thirty in total). My husband has always had a high sex drive and i was always on the other end of the scale. I am 51 and he is 50. He has been through alot of life changes, his job which he was in for years ended ( redundancy) and he met his real birth mother after nearly fifty years. This in itself caused a few problems as she only wanted to know him and not his family, so i have felt a bit left out. He isn't as bad as he was with her (totally obsessed with the idea of meeting her ( which i could understand to an extent). He isn't particularly happy in his new job and i feel this doesn't help. He complains of always feeling tired and has gained abit of weight (although being tall he carries it off) I'm feeling abit unloved as the closeness has gone due to lack of sexual closeness, when i confront him he just says perhaps he is going through a sort of change. He doesn't understand it isnt about the sex, it is more about feeling loved. This menopause bussiness doesn't help me as i feel depressed myself, i also have the empty nest syndrome and feel in limbo. I'm certain there isnt anyone else, i just wondered am i the only one whose husband has lost all interest??
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