Marital problems ,anxiety?
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My wife never wants to be around anybody but myself and her mother, has no friends other than myself,never wants to be intimate or initiate sex,always seems to be tired and full sleep early every night.just to name a few.
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talk to anybody or jump in any conversation.I love my wife very much but over the years things of gotten how can I put it more difficult.I enjoy having my wife with me
whenever I go out and I have a few good friends were like spending time with. But
she would never want to go out and then give me grief for going out and leaving her home even though she was more than welcome to come.and I guess a lot of the problems can be that she just does not know how to relax she goes in the morning and doesn't stop until about 8 o'clock when she lays down on the couch and goes to sleep or tries to watch TV but ends up falling asleep in between.i've always been what you would say very sexual person and my wife is beautiful and sexy even after all these years I want to be with her all the time.i'm also a little hands-on which I'm sure gets on her nerves sometimes but I guess I'm just looking for some type of physical attention from her without me having to initiate.over the years I've poured my heart out and told her things that I wanted or needed and things get better for a week and she seems to forget I don't know I would do anything for my wife anything she wanted or needed I would take care of she just doesn't seem to think the same way I do when it comes to my needs. and you know sometimes when you get in arguments you say things that you shouldn't or just can't get out all the feelings that you like her to know.about six weeks ago I started to see American counselor she refused to go but mostly I was just going hoping that after a few weeks she would maybe go and speak to somebody that did not work out well.I started distancing myself from her a little bit not being angry or mean I just wasn't holding your hand like normal or I was avoiding touching her in anyway because I want to see if she even noticed that I wasn't being my normal self.so after six weeks and me not initiating sex there for me not getting any sex I became a little irritable hurt angry,and didn't know what to do so instead of in the heat of an argument I sat down over a couple weeks and wrote her a two page letter on how I felt.and on a day that everything went great we were having a good day just relaxing I told her that I had something I wanted her to do and that I didn't want to argue about anything that I just want to get these feelings off my chest I gave her the letter and went out for couple of hours.when I got back she didn't say much the next day it was kind of World War III needless to say and it doesn't surprise me she took it entirely the wrong way even though most of the letter I was confessing my love to her but telling her you know what I needed and why I I need to be loved not just mentally but physically .she knows what I want I don't have to go through that with her it's just that I don't understand she just does not do anything that I've suggested even after hints or being as nice as rain more than I normally at which I'm a really good guy.i'm really getting to the point where I don't know what to do I don't want to lose her and she refuses to see anybody or talk to anybody and since she has no friends other than her mother I'm not quite sure what I should do.I know ultimatums really work out the way you want but like I mentioned earlier my cousin was having similar issues and told his wife that she need to see somebody and get help or he was
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