ME/CFS (ME: commonly known as Chronic Fatigue Syndrome)

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I've lived with my illness for the past 5yrs. For me it was post viral as is the most common.

It is a neurological illness that shares some cross-over symptoms with Parkinson's disease and MS.

It is still little known despite there being around 250,000 sufferers in the UK alone. The first case having been diagnosed during the 1930s but significantly, by 1955 the Royal London Hospital was forced to close when up to a third of staff suffered so badly they could not work or, return to work after their initial illness/virus.

There is little research done by government and some in the medical profession - particularly among mental health professionals, deem it to be 'all in the mind' - a 'non-illness'.

NB: The World Health Organisation, recognises ME/CFS as the neurological disease it is and so does the UK Government.

ME is diagnosed as being mild (may still be able to work etc), moderate (unlikely to sustain regular work) and severe which is dire. One is most probably house bound and quite possibly bed bound, and requires personal care.

I was forced to retire from my teaching career at 55 and am now just 60. ME, is a largely, invisible and most debilitating illness.

I have only recently, come to terms with my 'new' life, what I lost and all those who have over time, drifted away ...

Saying NO so often to people who you care about is hard. But when those people fail every which way to have any real measure of understanding - that is also, quite devastating. And one can easily become isolated and worse, invisible. Sufferers of ME can look perfectly well and OK and this is a huge part of the problem - for me.

My quest now, is simply to put my enforced, 'Isolation' out there! I am still reasonably active day to day despite my many limitations and would love to speak to, or meet anyone out there who, can manage to maintain a positive outlook despite whatever it is they suffer with.

I don't wish to sit and moan about my fate. I want to live my life!

That said, I am a compassionate and empathetic character - a good talker - and listener.

I love the Arts, music, radio and some TV, film etc, social history, crime drama, foreign language films. I do family research, and travel research. I like to keep the 'little grey cells' busy - or they die!

Obviously, I am very limited on certain days but I always do what I can.

HELLO!

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    hi Jo,

    thanks for sharing that. it is encouraging and comforting to hear someone else echo my thoughts and feelings. ive been sick for 18 mths and although I have improved greatly I still cannot work and spend a lot of my time doing nothing and resting. soooooo boring , it feels like life is passing me by . Iam 48 years old and love life , usually an optomist lately I am becoming cynical and grumpy. I am still angry that ME has robbed me of so much and apart from tablets to help with nerve pain the rest of my recovery is up to me and the GPs here in NZ although sympathetic cant offer very much at all.

    Isaw a programme last night where a woman had an autoimune condition that has gone into complete remission after she followed a raw vegan diet for 6 months. I already do dairy and gluten free and low sugar, non processed food diet which I am sure has helped me get this far may be I need to take the further step. Have you ever tried food as medicine? winter is just about to start here in New Zealand and the thought of no hot soup to keep me warm is a sad thought but Id eat rocks to be honest if it worked . Thanks again for sharing , I wish you all the best.

    kind regards

    Jan

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      Hi Jan,

      I'm 56 and I've been vegetarian for 37 years. This last year I've followed a vegan diet, although not raw and have had a very limited intake of sugar (a slice of Christmas cake is all) sadly I have felt no improvement in the ME/CFS.

      I'm with you on a winter with no warming soup, gosh that'll be a struggle. 😞.

      Sarah

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      Hi Jan, It's lovely to hear from you!

      Firstly, it is fantastic that you say, 'You have improved greatly!'

      Hold on to that!

      I kept a diary for the first 2yrs and when I felt hopeless, I read it and realised how much I'd improved - small things like eating a meal 😉)

      My employers kept the pressure on me for those first 2yrs, visiting me at home every month ... then they 'let me go'. So ...

      I empathise with your 'anger' and of course the frustration that goes with that. You are in an early stage of your illness and this is to be expected. I felt angry for the first 2 or 3 yrs! Anger per sa isn't good as it robs us of our precious energy - and of feeling better. But it's a natural emotion none the less. A vital stage we must acknowledge and hopefully, pass through. Understandable.

      To answer your question directly, Jan, Yes, I have lived my life with food as medicine. I have been Veggie for 35 of those 60 yrs - and a healthy veggie too, not junk food.

      I have always been active: swimming, cycling, rambling ... and it kept me sane.

      I have passed through the stages of anger, depression (I do not suffer depression), and grief for all I have lost: career, home, friends and a partner. But without going into too much detail, I am now in a good place of acceptance. For this alone is what I now believe will help me heal: progression, positivity are all I hope for day to day. The rest will come.

      In addition: I personally don't believe that any restrictive diet will heal me. Of course eating healthily will do us nothing but good! And our individual preferences must be respected. This aside, Jan, I know too many with ME/CFS who, have spent a small fortune (myself included) on 'alternative supplements' and who, like you said, would 'eat rocks' if it cured us - we - would - do - anything!

      ME, is a neurological condition, Jan. I believe that it is connected to IBS (which, I suffered from as a child) our gut is vital to our well-being. BUT ... you must do what you feel makes your body function best. If you want hot soup for pities sake HAVE IT! Your mental health is again, a vital piece of the 'puzzle' that is good/poor health.

      I will share with you one thing, however, because it saved my sanity: I have suffered throughout with the most appalling, sleep deprivation. The menopause was a walk in the park in comparison! But I have now discovered that one Histamine (non addictive) tab at night, plus or, alone, I take 5drops of CBD oil under my tongue and if - I have a dental treatment or similar, 3 - 5 drops (10% oil) just before a treatment helps enormously with the adrenaline rush and tremors I suffer.

      I also found that Sacro cranial massage helped every month or so but this caused me tremendous pain at first. It works on muscle memory and my body was in shock!

      It would be lovely if you kept in touch. Let me know how you go on?

      Warmest Wishes from W. Yorkshire, England.

      Jo

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      Hi.. Sir ,5 year ago doctor did my EPS to reduce my heart beat. Now from 5 year i have heart sinking problem. I cannot do exercise. When i do rest after walk my heart feel difficultly to become its normal place. Many cardiologist check me and said my heart is ok.

      Do i have CFS. I dont know. Doctors said i have anxiety. Many time post here and people became anoyed by me. From last 3 month i am in hospital emergency in after very two days. My life is ruined. My age is 38. Alot of money i have been spend on doctors fees and medicine. Psychologists have been checked me . I took psycho medicine but no improvement. Day by day i m going down. What i do. I m post my post to every body of you. Hope hear good from you. Best wishes for all of you.

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      Hi Jo, thank you so much for that lovely reply. It has given me huge encouragement. I agree with the hot soup thing too hahaa it feels like soul food so nourishing. Im interested that the antihistamine helps you to sleep . I take nortriptylline for nerve pain and general body irritation/ Jitters, as I was having a hard time with lack of sleep because of this. The nortrip taken at night works really well and I get a full 8 hrs a night now but still get the pains/ discomfort during the day so Im not sure they are really doing anything other than just relaxing me ...I may be better to take a natural sleep enhancer.

      I am focused on trying to improve and keep my sanity and sit in the sunshine for at least 20 mins a day ( easier done here in NZ than the UK) I am sure this helps.

      thanks again, warmest regards Jan

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      Hi Jan, Just a quickie - a take a Histamine - not - antihistamine.

      Enjoy the wonderful sunshine!

      Keep in touch 😉)

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    It's been twenty years for me now, after a particularly bad bout of Glandular Fever. I improved a little for approximately five years but then my condition plateaued and I've been mainly housebound ever since, though very occasionally I try the odd venture out but like all of us, usually pay for it.

    Luckily I've been able to work a little as I'm a professional artist (painter) though my output is very limited but thankfully I have enough regular buyers here and abroad to absorb what I do paint.

    I've tried just about every diet, and supposed treatment for ME, all to no avail and now just accept this is how it is from here on. I was under a consultant at the local hospital but unfortunately, although young, he committed suicide after a bicycle accident and increased pressures of work, and they haven't replaced him.

    One of the problems that I've found with the medical profession is that they tend to write off every problem that you have, down to the ME, which meant they missed an arthritic collapsing hip till I was in a wheelchair, saying it was damage to the nerves from ME and not even bothering to x-ray it.

    The same occurred with a heart problem ( common to ME sufferers) till I was rushed to hospital for treatment after bad episode.

    Most of us long term sufferers have been through the mill over the years, losing friends and family in the process and the one consolation is that younger sufferers are likely to have the best outcome, the rest of us "mature" patients, unfortunately less so. Still we battle on as let's face it, there's not much of an alternative .... 😃

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      Hi.. Sir ,5 year ago doctor did my EPS to reduce my heart beat. Now from 5 year i have heart sinking problem. I cannot do exercise. When i do rest after walk my heart feel difficultly to become its normal place. Many cardiologist check me and said my heart is ok.

      Do i have CFS. I dont know. Doctors said i have anxiety. Many time post here and people became anoyed by me. From last 3 month i am in hospital emergency in after very two days. My life is ruined. My age is 38. Alot of money i have been spend on doctors fees and medicine. Psychologists have been checked me . I took psycho medicine but no improvement. Day by day i m going down. What i do. I m post my post to every body of you. Hope hear good from you. Best wishes for all of you.

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    I have been suffering from ME/CFS since 2013 and I'll be 56 on May 30. I tend to be mostly home bound although I can get out once every two weeks or so for about 4-6 hours. I am an artist and photographer, and my saving grace is I can still create my digital paintings to keep my brain engaged. I'm also a member of two artist guilds here in Nashville, Tennessee. Although I am unable to drive, my wife is kind enough to take me two my meetings and showings when I am feeling up to it.

    I was turned on to a Dr. Jarred Younger on YouTube back in December. Dr. Younger gave a presentation of his new research findings that indicate brain inflammation plays a significant role in the pathophysiology of ME/CFS. With pilot funding from SMCI’s Ramsay Award Program, Dr. Younger used a non-invasive imaging technique to measure temperature and other brain chemistry indicators in individuals with ME/CFS and control subjects. The results showed distinctly elevated brain temperature, indicative of inflammation, in patients.

    I forwarded the link to my Neurologist and his associates to give them a better understanding of the science, current research and symptoms. I won't post the link, as I know the mods will remove it. However, if you go to YouTube and enter: ME/CFS Involves Brain Inflammation: Results from a Ramsay Pilot Study you will be able to view it.

    The involvement of brain inflammation in the development and progression of ME/CFS has long been an area of interest, but there has been a lack of direct evidence to support the connection. This seminal study further validates that neuroinflammation is occurring in ME/CFS patients and has the potential to point the way to an objective marker and effective medical treatments.

    I highly, HIGHLY recommend watching it, and sending it to your new Doctors to help them understand more clearly the scope of the disease.

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      Dear friend,

      Thank You, so very much for expending your precious energy to get in touch! The information is most welcome and I shall indeed look up the YouTube study.

      You sound to be very positive, and it's wonderful that you have such a supportive partner and remain active in what you love most. This is priceless.

      I was an adult Tutor and Chef in my past life and an avid walker: but now although I can stroll around most days if I'm careful and manage my energy intelligently - I miss being up in the hills and rambling around by lakes and rivers. No matter. I have carved out a pretty decent life and although I live alone, I manage to 'get by' as independently as I can. Little things mean a lot! I feel so grateful and I know this helps me too.

      Hey, thanks again ...

      Warmest Wishes to You and Yours,

      Jo

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      Thanks for the reply, Jo ...

      I was also a professional photographer covering sports and music/entertainment. Since I can't do that anymore, I have lost that personal contact with friends and crew that I worked with through our many gigs that we have worked together over the last 20 years. I am able to stay in touch via Facebook, but that just isn't the same. I also played and coached ice hockey for over 40 years and I miss that as well!

      However, my biggest disappointment is not being able to join my wife for a lot of things that make her happy as it is a direct catalyst for most of my ME symptoms. 😦

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      Hi.. Sir ,5 year ago doctor did my EPS to reduce my heart beat. Now from 5 year i have heart sinking problem. I cannot do exercise. When i do rest after walk my heart feel difficultly to become its normal place. Many cardiologist check me and said my heart is ok.

      Do i have CFS. I dont know. Doctors said i have anxiety. Many time post here and people became anoyed by me. From last 3 month i am in hospital emergency in after very two days. My life is ruined. My age is 38. Alot of money i have been spend on doctors fees and medicine. Psychologists have been checked me . I took psycho medicine but no improvement. Day by day i m going down. What i do. I m post my post to every body of you. Hope hear good from you. Best wishes for all of you.

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      Hi, I have been overwhelmed by the heartfelt comments to my post.

      Yes, there is absolutely no compensation or decent alternative for human contact - the contact we want to have with those we respect and share so much with.

      But what a fabulous life you've led and in despite everything - still manage.

      I know what you mean by FB ... no substitute. I only use it to contact my son, who is still at University.

      Is there absolutely no way you could meet up with anyone from those times? It is so difficult - often impossible to tell people of our illness? And when we do, well, 'green heads!' WE LOOK SO WELL don't we? I 'don't even look my age ...?' not sure how that works 😉)

      I hold my hands up to 'isolation'. It is simpler, it is easier, it takes no explantion and then I'm not disappointed or hurt. But then how - are - we - to - educate - others. Do we want to? Bla bla. . .

      My lovely 'old' Doctor has just retired - Friday. I have a government assessment looming in 2wks (I am 60 but our retirement age has recently been extended to 66 so I rely on benefits - welfare.

      I am asked to bring along 'A Doctor's statement', to explain why, I am not fit to work.

      I'm not even 'going there.'

      I have yet to meet a 'new' Doctor. Then and only then, will I discover what, if anything, they understand about our 'mystery' illness.

      Que sera sera.

      I aim to become even more - philosophical with age! 😉)

      Jo

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    Hi.. Sir ,5 year ago doctor did my EPS to reduce my heart beat. Now from 5 year i have heart sinking problem. I cannot do exercise. When i do rest after walk my heart feel difficultly to become its normal place. Many cardiologist check me and said my heart is ok.

    Do i have CFS. I dont know. Doctors said i have anxiety. Many time post here and people became anoyed by me. From last 3 month i am in hospital emergency in after very two days. My life is ruined. My age is 38. Alot of money i have been spend on doctors fees and medicine. Psychologists have been checked me . I took psycho medicine but no improvement. Day by day i m going down. What i do. I m post my post to every body of you. Hope hear good from you. Best wishes for all of you.

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    Hi jowalsh,

    You tried going vegan? (It doesn't have to be raw or otherwise, just plain vegan, so no meat or animal products). Since going vegan, I've found that my symptoms (of 11 years) have been improving a little/slowly since making the transition some 6-8 months ago (I was a vegetarian before that).

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      Hello.

      Thanks for getting in touch, and I am pretty much am.

      Appreciate the thought.

      Thanks 😉)

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      You're welcome. When you say you pretty much am, what foods is it that you're having that aren't vegan?

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      Firstly, I do not believe we can isolate food in this way.

      Life, is a complex 'jig-saw', yin and yang, mental/physical/ and so on . . .

      As I've said to someone else in the 'thread', the West, treats symptoms not the underlying condition. This is folly. We must look at ME in the holistic sense.

      To answer then, your qu': I continue to eat Quorn products (contains egg) and the occasional egg too. If I want cake/pasta when I'm out I will eat it. I gave up on the cheese/milk, eat organic where ever I can - I feel this alone is very important ecologically.

      The cocktail of poisons our bodies absorb is incredible! And in modern society we have little control about all encompassing - pollutants and their implications.

      I use natural fibres to aid my health: carpets, pillows, matresses - all wool. And my shoes are leather. This is against vegan principle.

      If we could clean up the environment . . . agriculture, and so on . . . this would help us all feel better.

      I have no doubt that ME and other neurological conditions are connected to pollutants. It just hasn't been proven yet - although Cancer . . .

      I have no ethical stance re: vegan. I have always refused 'animal tested product' - it makes sense. Medically, this is a difficult one to argue.

      I have always done what ever I could. If one has an underlying condition (as I did have 50yrs ago) IBS or other, then one must surely look at diet. I did this and my IBS was virtually gone.

      That aside, restrictive diets would not - in my humble opinion do anything to 'cure' ME - although they undoubtedly, would cure or, greatly make better, other issues.

      Jo

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      Hi Jo,

      Ah, I see, so you're a vegetarian. There are lots of points in your response, so I'll try and respond to all them.

      1. I didn't become a vegan for health, I did it for the animals. Having said that, I've also had CFS for 11 years so far, so if someone had told me that going vegan would help even just a little with CFS, then I'd have done it just for that.

        1.1) The digestion system of a human is where all of the food/drink (fuel) is digested and created. This is a very important part of the body, so removing foods that aren't supposed to be in there in the first place or that your body is intolerant to is treating the condition/issue at the source in most cases.

      2. 'The cocktail of poisons our bodies absorb is incredible!' It sure is, which is why being a vegan is also really important for people who are more susceptible to digestive issues or the negative effects of food.

        4.1) Having a vegan diet isn't a restrictive diet, it's just not eating foods we can do without: it has never been natural for humans to drink the milk of another species at birth, let alone into adulthood. Also, protein can now be produced in a way that doesn't require the slaughter of any animals and the proteins that are made in this way can be produced costing less and have a lot less of an environmental impact to the world.

      3. Pollution could be related, but I think all the chemicals and supplements that are injected into cows, pigs, chickens etc. are a lot worse.
      4. I also had IBS for years and since becoming a vegan, that has almost completely gone as well.
      5. If you're talking about cleaning up the environment/making it better, becoming a vegan is the easiest way to improve the environment as vegan food takes a fraction of the amount dairy/meat farming takes up land-wise and agriculture is the largest contributor for deforestation in the world.
      6. Going vegan may not cure my CFS, but it has certainly improved my symptoms, so for that reason alone, I'd recommend it to anyone with CFS who wants to make the effort to improve their symptoms. (I say make an effort because through my experiences on here so far, people seem to want to make their symptoms better, but seem to think eating vegan is really hard and want to fix their issues without making that amount of effort.)
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      hi there just out of interest do you exclude gluten and refined sugar ? I try to avoid these as it seems I have read so many times that they are linked with increased inflammation. I am interested in becoming a vegan for my health too . be interested to hear your thoughts .

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      Hi jan96753,

      I've felt a lot better since significantly reducing the amount of bread I eat. In other words, I used to eat bread almost every other day, but felt rather bloated on it. Since then I've tried just eating 1-2 loaves of bread a month (shared between me and my wife) and eating some stuff like breaded burgers has completely removed the bloating.

      Regarding refined sugar, I haven't found that it affects me much, but I enjoy cooking (as does my wife), so other than cooking some breaded burgers and the like (that would probably contain the refined sugar), we cook most of our meals from scratch, so I can only assume that we have a fair amount less refined sugar than most people do (hopefully that makes sense). Everyone is different, so it could be worth you looking at the refined sugar content of what you eat and totalling up an average week's worth to see how that compares to guidelines.

      I'm not trying to be condescending with this next comment, but I've researched food a lot over the years for various health issues I've had regarding digestion and then onto making sure I have a balanced nutrient rich vegan diet, so I'd be more than happy to chat to you about it if you wanted to.

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      Hello, again.

      We're very much on the same page although I'm disappointed that you believe pollutants 'could' be related when they so obviously - are.

      A land mark ruling only 2 days ago re: the beautiful 9yr old girl in E. London who died (was killed) due to the air pollution on the road were she lived - she was asthmatic. This is massive.

      Still, you are obviously well informed and I respect your views. More importantly, you have found what works best for YOU. I have enjoyed 'chewing the cud' - thanks! 😉)

      In contrast, the NHS and it's 'One size fits All' approach doesn't bear at all well for ME sufferers. It simply does not understand the illness. The research is not there. It seemingly, does not have the resource to act. . .

      I was however, struck with how you ended your piece, and would just add (for 'those on here' - looking for 'a quick fix') a note of caution:

      As with most things, knowledge is power. And educating ones self is key. You are absolutely right - so many people - want a 'quick fix'. They do not seem to 'make an effort' to empower themselves to alleviate their symptoms. . . pills seem to be a much quicker, easier option.

      But 'quick fixes' are not sustainable.

      I go back to the above - knowledge is power! Education is KEY. And unfortunately, I have seen too many young people (I taught in FE/HE) who, on the wave of Veganuary . . . have become vegan over night without first educating themselves: instead of putting alternatives in place, they have simply, cut food groups - restricting their nutrition.

      So whether this is political or personal (can we ever separate the two, when the personal is inevitably, political), this is not helpful and can be dangerous - particularly for young women, who are still developing.

      So while I would very much like to see our population move toward a 'plant based' diet (I think this term makes it simpler for many to understand, given the 'mythology' surrounding veganism in some qtrs) and I wholeheartedly agree with you NO cure for ME but YES, improvements to health and symptoms through diet.

      I would just like people to take some quality time - because they are worth it: research, research, research - reliably and responsibly.

      Not fashionable/kardishian info' from the internet or worse, a 'Womans'' magazine but solid research from a reputable source.

      I think we can absolutely agree that, a 'plant based' (natural) diet will have less pollutants, less chemicals and therefore, it is obvious, will place less stress on our body.

      Enjoy! 😉)

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      Hi Jo,

      That is true, but not everyone lives in London. In context, yes it's a problem in London, but in comparison to London, most other places are far much better for pollution levels.

      It does work well for me, but it would/could work well for others if they'd actually give veganism a try for longer than a month and eat new foods, a) because there's so much vegan food out there which is super tasty and b) because if you only increased the amount of vegetables you ate and didn't increase the variety you ate, then of course, you probably would get deficient in certain vitamins/nutrients.

      I agree with your words on quick fixes. Veganism is not a quick fix, but the change in symptoms are noticeable after a couple of months because it is so much better for your body that eating meat and dairy. I think Veganuary is great! The primary website that promotes it has loads of information on getting enough vitamins and nutrients, so going vegan overnight no longer becomes an issue.

      We can, I'm not a vegan for any political reason, I'm a vegan because I don't want any animals to suffer. That's it. All you have to do is view a documentary like dominion of what the health or look at some of the expose videos of the meat/dairy industry to see how much suffering there is.

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