menapause and orgasm weakness
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hi i just want some replies from anyone having the same problem.
has anyone else suffered with this and does it get better after menopause has done with and homones have balanced out?
my sex life is just horrible now i want to have sex but cant orgasm it starts then just stops instantly and is very weak. i must addmit this has been going on for a few years but getting worse as time goes by.
iv tryed everything and nothing makes it any better. im not dry and it dosnt hurt . i just take ages and then its so weak its almost nit there.
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Guest d19606
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I'm just impressed you are having sex! To hell with the orgasm.
Sorry, just kidding. With all my other meno issues sex has been on hold.. you're lucky
Mars777 Guest
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Lotti1966 d19606
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Mars777 Lotti1966
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No i haven't, been on HRT had to come off symptoms bk with avengence .
?Now on a very low dose .. 10 days now not sure yet if kicked in? Was great on the higher dose !
d19606 Lotti1966
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anyways so now i have to look forward to dryness sorness and no orgasms anymore gosh im not even 48 till july. that is so unfair i think i hate life now. it was only a few years ago i could have up to three of them lol.
youd have thought some dr would have at least found a solution to it by now if its just homonal. gosh why is it so complicated for them. i bet if it was a male problem it would be solved now.
gailannie d19606
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Yes, is the answer to your question. Many women have this. It is hormone related. Don't be surprised if the vaginal atrophy, dryness and pain follows. This is just one more step to losing all of the hormones that keep our vaginal health and sex life up and running.
Life certainly changes. And some of it is nothing but a cruel joke. This is a topic that makes me very mad and angry, as we are told to be patient, chenge how we do things, use lots of lube, coconut oil, vitamin E capsules etc. But no one addresses the complete inability to orgasm no matter how in love, or how much we want the joy of sex to remain in our ives. But I'll say it again, this is related to hormones.
d19606
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gailannie d19606
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All I can tell you is HRT really does help. While there has been a ton in the news about trestosterone for women, you have to really start with estrogen and progesterone. When you get these two back, I think you'd be pretty happy. And yes, orgasms are possible.
d19606
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how do you get over this and stil be happy and feel nice. i just feel yuk.
menopolized d19606
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i always wanted to know if ladies with no uterus ( I mean hysterectomy) still got orgasm ? which organ goes into spasms ?
Lotti1966 menopolized
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You do! Not the same though😞don't mind me being graphic but its not as deep. I believe it's just the cervix. I had a total hysterectomy 1 1/2 yrs ago. About 3 months ago finally relaxed enough to have one.