Migraines everyday, all day, for 9 months. Help!!

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Remember your worst migraine. How much pain you were in and how you just couldn't do anything. That's how I am everyday.

Right so I'm a 20 year old female, I'm and student and work as a waitress part time.

So, I started with a headache on the 18th January this year, pain killers didn't touch it. Woke up the next day and still had a terrible headache.

I have a terrible headache all day, everyday, without fail. It's got to the point now that I'm stressed; fed up, hardly sleeping, can't concentrate at uni or any time really.

Please understand that the pain never goes, the headache never ends. I have literally had a migraine 24/7 for 9 months now.

I wear glasses (short sighted) but I know it's not my eyes causing the migraines.

I've cut out everything that's apparently supposed to aggravate headaches. Stop drinking caffeine, stop eating chocolate and cheese. No change in the headaches.

This continued for a week or two before I went to see my GP who referred me to a neurologist.

The first neurologist thought I had tension headaches caused by stress.

At this point, I wasn't stressed at all, not with uni or work, nothing. So I didn't quite understand this diagnosis.

Anyway he put me onto tablets called amitriptyline, which is an antidepressant, and told me to gradually increase my dosage up to 50mg a day. This didn't help at all, had horrible side affects.

I then saw another neurologist who diagnosed me with migraines, put me into Topamax, which are an anti epileptic drug meant to also treat migraines. I got my dose up to 100mg within 3 months and the side affects were horrible and didn't help at all.

I've had a CT scan, which was normal. Had an MRI scan, which was normal. I've also tried Imigran and some migraine medication that melts into your tongue, with no affect what so ever.

After trying all this, an idea was put forward that I could have raised intracranial hypertension, so yesterday I had a Lumbar Puncture. The pressure was at 19 and a half (apparently if its over 20 it's high), so it's not thought its that. The migraines were worse for a week after the lumbar puncture, I couldn't even sit up without being in agony and being sick. Spent a week in bed unable to move.

I've got another type of MRI scan booked for the end of this month that's apparently going to look at the veins/blood vessels in my head to see if there is a problem there.

I feel like I'm not being taken seriously now by doctors, because "there isn't anything to be worried about, like a tumour" as I'm always told! As much as I'm so very glad I don't have anything serious to be worried about, I hate spending everyday in so much pain that I can't function.

Please don't think I'm over reacting/attention seeking/whatever, but I am literally fed up and can't cope. I can't get a minute of relief, I'm constantly in pain (different variations of pain, but pain all the same). As I'm writing this I'm crying my eyes out because I haven't managed to sleep more than 3 hours a night in that past 4 days. I'm exhausted and depressed now. I've even told my GP that I am so depressed now, I have thought on more than one occasion of overdosing just to end this pain. And he literally turned me away saying he couldn't do anything. I feel so defeated.

If anyone has had this type of problem before or knows someone that has, please let me know.

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    I had the exact same thing and I'm 18. The doctors think I'm nuts because they have checked for everything and have had me on all different types of meds but nothing. It's discouraging. If u find the cure before I do please let me know. Glad to know its not only me. Thanks
  • Posted

    Same problem for 16 years.  The answer:  TMJ or TMD related migraines.  Mine are all the time.  My relief comes from taking 'triptan' medication which are migraine medications.  Only ones that ever worked.  for the first several years like you tried everything with my Doctor.  Finally convinced him that they were related to the clenching of my Jaw.    NO Dental insurance so no treatment.  Now, tomorrow in fact I will finally see a TMJ specialist.   Please look into this.  Good luck.
  • Posted

    I have had similar experiences. I began to have chronic migraines about 10 years ago. They can last for weeks at a time, and there is nothing that gives me any relief. I have lost my job and my life has completely changed. I am extremely light sensitive. Weather changes seems to trigger the migraines, however that is not the only cause, sometimes they are just arbitrary. It is very defeating. I hope that you are doing better. After so long the best I figure I can do is just endure, and keep an ice pack in the freezer. 
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      Hi Jennifer,

      I wonder what meds you have actually tried?  Life for me can be pretty miserable too, getting intense cluster headaches waking me at night and like you I am very light sensitive at times.  I also have Hemaplegic Migraine and this usually hospitalises me.

      I want to te tell you what I have had some success with.  For cluster headache I have sumatriptan injections when I have an attack.  For preventative I take Pregabalin and verapamil.  For the HM I have Flunarizine and Botox.

      Hope this helps

  • Posted

    Becky,

    I know this is an old post. I am the same, I have been diagnosed with chronic migraine, woke up one day 11 months ago. its with me from when I wake till I go to bed, with light aura, dizzyness, pins and needles and blurred vision too, I have also tried both drugs you were given (same awful awful side effects), MRI is next week, also seen a osteopath, changed diet, perfume, etc. 

    I cannot carry on like this :-(

  • Posted

    HI Becky, I'm sorry you going trough a very difficult time. I fill your pain. I have terrible pain in my brain for 6 months now. All day every day. I had nausea last year and they put me on remeron and in 3 weeks my brain zap started and never left me. I'm stopped the remeron and I'm on clonozapem for anxiety. I could not sleep or function anymore. I'm on sick leave too. I don't think I ever able to go to back to work. Usually morning a little bit bbetter I call it just a migraine but by afternoon 2-3 pm the migraine change for zaping like somebody put electricity in you brain. Very painfull. All my test is ok too. Had Ct scan and MRI. They sad normal only some white spot in my brain but they said lists off people has that. My neurologist did not help me at all when she saw my report. She said I should see a psychiatrist. I would not take any more dep. pill. I know is not the answer. I'm not depressed I'm frustrated I have no answer. Taking Mg, Ca, Fish oil, D3 for 4 months now. Eating right exercise meditate doing yoga, nothing is really helps. I'm 55 hoping is menapose. That's my only hope.God bless you and wishing well for everybody.
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    Hi everyone,

    I know this discussion is probably old and out of most of your thoughts. I've been getting a migraine every single day for 3 weeks straight now. They start in my neck and wrap around my head right above my right eye and then increase in pain 10 fold. I tried pleading with my physician to refer me to someone but she simply gave me the, "it's probably just allergies" malarkey. But what she did do was prescribe me MAXALT (Rizatriptan) and dear lord it's the best. It take the migraine away in 10-30min. I even take ibuprofen on top since they do not affect each other negatively. But it's still not the permanent fix I need. I get them as soon I wake up or in the middle of my work day. I can only take MAXALT for so long because it says I shouldn't take it for more than 10 days in a month.... it's been exactly 10 days and these migraines haven't gotten any better. I've had friends suggest it could be fluid build up in the neck, but my doctor hasn't hinted at getting me tested. I'm really thinking about switching doctors just so I can get a referal. I'm a 21 yr old MALE. I've had migraines but only ever 3 days at a time, never this long and never this intense. Like the original poster, I'm starting to become very depressed and have thought about just ending it, not because of the depression itself, but because it hurts so bad and I feel like no one believes me. These pains immobilize me for a good 40 min before I can start to function now.... I'm open to literally any suggestions because I'm desperate. I want these at least lessened before my brothers wedding in only 3 weeks! I'm the best man!

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      James0222, do not give up! There are neurologists and docs that specialize in migraines. I do know the pain you suffer, I've suffered for for over 30 years which includes a 10 year remission. There's no explanation as to why I went into resubmission and I have no idea what triggers them. There have been times where I thought I could not endure another migraine, where I get so fearful that one is coming on and how easy to take a ton of pain pills, but of course it would only cause more vomiting and make it all worse. Just know that you are not alone and keep pushing, change docs, try a chiropractor, that has been helping me, not a cure, but after 2 mos seeing a chiro significant improvement with the neck pain and those dneaky migraines ghat crawl from my back skull to side of face. I do take a daily allergy med and ibuprofen every morning. And benadryl in evening especially if it's a windy day. For the really bad moments I'm on tramadol. It's a crap shoot, but if you can get the right doc to work w/you the good days are really worth it. Prayers and thoughts to you...
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      I've read this book...call the migraine brain by caroline Berstein...very helpful....once you understand what a migraine really is....you may beable to stop or lessen the attack...i am giving it a try....
  • Posted

    Hello Becky,

    I have suffered from migraines since I was a teenager.  I used to go through three days of hell when they occurred.  Then I was prescribed Sumatriptan - what a relief!  It is truly a miracle drug.  No matter how bad the head-pain Sumatriptan relieves it after exactly one hour.

    I can't recommend it highly enough.  Please ask your doctor or buy a private prescription. 

    • Posted

      Hi,

      Thanks for your message!

      Glad you've found a medication that helps you.

      I currently take Rizatriptan and Imigran injections and then do help a lot but sometimes if I take it too late, I don't find it effective.

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      Just wondered what preventative meds you currently take Becky-Louise?  I also take Imigran injections and for speed of relief I have found nothing better, but like you say, once the pain is really intense it takes longer to get rid of and the relief is not 100%
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    Hi Becky

    I know this was posted quite a while ago, but im hoping you still receieve this notification.

    Ive had the same type of headache for 14 months now

    I was wondering if you found anything to help in the end? Are you heachache free?

    Im 23, and have seen 2 neurologists - 1 diagnosing me with tension headache, the other diagnosing me with chronic migraine. I have been on so many meds including Amytriptlyne - none make a difference, Ive recently had nerve block injections in the back of my head which is meant to give imediate relief - which im dissopointed to say this hasnt worked. I really dont know what to do - its ruining me life, I dont have any social life anymore.

    I am currently seeing a chiro who is confident that they can stop my headache, have been going for a couple of weeks but no difference as of yet. ive had an MRI and a CT - Nothing, and i agree with you, once you have clear results back the doctors dont seen to give a sh*t as they know you havent got a tumor. I have too thought about suiside.

    I have other symtoms too including constant tinnitis, facial numbness and tingling, neck/top of the back ache, eye pain.

    If you or anyone reading this can get back to me, id really like to know if anyone has come out the other end of something like this, as this will give hope!

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      Hi Amber! Thank you for sending your message.

      Please do not give up living your life, it will get better!

      I'm better than I was when I wrote the original post around 3 years ago.

      Haven't found a reason for my migraines, and haven't found anything that gets rid of them completely.

      I am now seeing a specialist at the Walton Centre in Liverpool instead of a neurologist at my local hospital. They've put me on tablets called Candasartan now, which is a blood pressure tablet. I'm up to 6mg a day, but it's really helped. I'm still getting headaches but the times I'm having full blown migraines is fewer.

      When I'm in pain, I try to avoid tablets that contain codien in them, and only take painkillers when really needed.

      When the pain is worse, I take tablets called Maxalt Melt (tastes awful but really helps when taken at the right time). And if it's a full blown migraine then I have Imigran injections. Sometimes I find the side effects of the Imigran is worse than the migraine so I try to avoid these where possible.

      My life has improved massively since being on this medication. I can actually go out and have a life now instead of being in the house all the time in pain. Or worrying about what I can go out and do.

      I hope this helps you figure out some possibilities for your migraines.

      If you feel like your doctor isn't listening to you, get them to refer you to a migraine specialist. I had a right nightmare with my normal neurologist because most of them don't understand migraines, they don't get the pain from them.

      I really hope this offered some help, but if anything some support. There are so many people following this thread that will support you, so please don't feel alone.

      Becky.

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      Hi Amber,

      Just read your post, I am interested to read the additional symptoms you have, facial numbness, tingling etc, these symptoms are also the start of anither type of migraine that I have, Hemaplegic Migraine and let me tell you some meds and treatment that have helped me.  I take Flunarizine at night and i have regular Botox injections, which is a recognised treatment for migraines, so you might want to discuss this with your neurologist.

      Hope this helps, good luck

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      Hi Becky

      Thanks for the reply. Im sorry to hear that you havent got over this, even after 3 years.

      Do you still have them all day, everyday but they are less severe, or do you have some days where its not there at all, and some days it is back?

      Also, have you noticed certain things make it instantly worse? E.g Alcohol ?

      How does your family/partner feel?

      I feel no one understands - everyone wonders why im in a bad mood all the time, and never want to do anything or go anywhere, im guessing everyone else going through this feels this way too?

      Have you, or anyone else reading this gone to chronic pain managment classes? im wondering if this will be benificial.

      Its comforting to know other people are going through the same thing! I will definatly ask to be transfered to an actual mirgraine specalist and suggest the medication you have mentioned!

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      Hello there

      Thanks alot for getting back to me!

      I have heard about this migraine- but the thing is,I dont get weakness in my arms or fingers - just my face, can sometimes feels like its drooping.

      What other symtoms do you get, and do you have your migraine constantly? Mine has literally been all day, everyday for the past 14 months (sounds to dramatic and exaggerated - but true). Also, how long have you been having these heachaches, do you they get better over time?

      Sorry for so many questions, its good to finally talk to people that understand! smile

      I think my next step is going to be the botox. How is this to have? I read you have around 38 injections? Would totally be worth it if sorts the migraine out though heh?

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      Hi Amber,

      Its ok ask as many questions as you like.

      My speech is very slured and I am really confused.

      Last year I was getting HM every other week and hospitalised  due to the similarities with a stroke.

      I would have to have physiotherapy to relearn my brain to communicate with the left side of my body.

      I get considerable eye pain and very photophobic.

      I have been having them for about 3 years now, but last year was the worst and they are made worse by stress and worry.  Last year my Mum died so you can imagine how it was.

      The Botox for me is definitely a Godsend but not 38 injections around 12 I think.

      The last time I was in hospital was January and not had one since.

      I also get cluster headaches, which if you research this condition, used to be known as the suicide illness as nothing could take the pain away.  Thankfully now there are meds to do that.

      Get in touch anytime Amber, always happy to help

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      Hi Amber,

      I usually have some sort of pain all day everyday, but sometimes it's so small that if I distract myself enough, I hardly notice it. Then other days, it's like a truck has run over my head.

      Today is a bad day though. Here in Blackpool we've had a very unusual period of nice weather, and as great as that is, my head is pounding coupled with the nice weather and hay fever. I'd love to go home and sleep it off, but unfortunately I need to be in work today.

      I find a few things make it worse, but still haven't found a 'trigger'.

      Alcohol; loud noises, flashing lights, lack of sleep, hot weather, hay fever are the main ones.

      I have been a lot better since going on Candersartan, I want to try and up my dose but the GP won't let me. Apparently my blood pressure is low anyway, and if I increase the meds it'll drop too low and I'll be passing out everywhere.

      My family hate seeing me like this, though it's better than where I was 3 years ago.

      My mum and all 4 of her sisters have some sort of migraine/cluster headache but none of them have ever had it like I do. My auntie has cluster headaches frequently, but never 24/7 like mine.

      Have you noticed any triggers? Or anything that makes it worse?

      Does it run in the family?

      Hope your doing alright,

      Becky

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      Hi Becky

      I see. I really do wonder if we are going to be like this for the rest of our lives? I constantly think to myself what kind of life is this to be in pain everyday, i just dont see a point.

      I feel some out doctors/neurologists in London play a guessing game. I asked my doc yesterday to be transfered to an actual migraine specialist and he told me there is no such thing, and all neurologists are migraine specialists?

      I have literally just started on Candersartan yesterday, so fingers crossed they have the same effect on me as they did you.

      I cant say i have any triggers, as the headache is constant, but i find that Alcohol makes it instantly worse. Also if i do any physical work like going shopping or cleaning my car.

      Being at work makes it worse as im sitting on a computer all day 5 days a week. Any bright light is painful as my eyes constantly have a sharp pain in them.

      My auntie is the only one in my family to get them, but hers come and go, not constant.

      This frustrates me so much, there has to be something thats causing our constant headache - this isnt normal!

      What do you do for work if you dont mind me asking? Have you had to change you job in anyway cause of your headache?

      Wondering if you have tried seeing a Chiropractor too?

      Amber x

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      Hi Amber,

      Just been reading your latest post and I see you are at a computer all day.  I am sure they have special glasses you can get to filter the light and you should acording to health and safety take regular breaks from the screen.. your company should pay for eye tests too!

      I agree about the bright lights being so painful to the eyes and of course headaches do cause a significant disruption to our lives, I try to put it into perspective though and realise that there are others who are a lot worse off.  The meds help us control the headaches and maybe in time we will grow out of them, lets hope hey!

      Have you used a chiropracter Amber, I find Indian head massage is very soothing.

      With regard to a headache specialist, there is one!  At the National Neurolgy hospital, Queens Square London.  Get your GP to refer you to Dr Matharu.

      Have you tried Sumatriptan to deal with the pain and Pregabalin to control it

      Best wishes

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      Hi Personal

      Thanks for coming back to me

      Ive had an eye test roughly 8 months ago and came back all fine, though I think I may go again soon for a second opinion.

      Working at a computer all day is probably the worse thing to do with chronic headache, but its a good realy good job, and I wouldnt know what to do for work otherwise.

      Its true, there are people out there who are worse off, saying that it doesnt make the headache any less painful and frustrating sad. I feel I have no life. Would love to finish work on a Friday and have a few drinks with friends or my partner to relax!

      How old are you if you dont mind me asking, does your headache stop you from doing things?

      I currently see a chiropracter 3 times a week for adjustments, he seems to think my headache is because my neck/spine is out of line - they have given me a hard block to lay on for 20 minutes every evening so have been doing so. They said it will take about 2 years to get my neck back to how it should be. Im going to give it 6 months to see if there is any difference, if not I shall rule it out, and its not cheap at all!

      Dr Matharu, can I see him through the NHS or will this be private?

      Im going to try acupuncture next, but im running out of options.

      Youve had botox, did your neurologist refer you? I think im going to give that a bash. Its nice to hear youve found some relief. Did you get releif after your first treatment?

      Amber x

    • Posted

      Hi Amber,

      Your GP can refer you to Dr Matharu, he is the country's headache specialist, and its NHS too.  Once you get in they have a specialist headache team that you can phone or email anytime to tell them whats working and whats not.  They do the Botox there.

      My headaches nromally wake me up in the night and I have to have an injection, once it goes I am fine usually most of the day, but as you can imagine with disturbed sleep its not the best,

      They can give you different kinds of injections, not just Botox, so its well worth nagging your GP to refer you to Dr Matharu at Queens Sqaure London,  He will order different blood tests and scans too.

      Good luck Amber and yes I agree, when the pain is bad nothing else matters but us who have it and getting rid of it as quickly as possible is priority,

      Keeps us updated

      Take care

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      Hi Personal20

      I asked my Doctor to refer me to Dr Matharu and ive been advised by his secrutary that he doesnt have any appointments until next year. How often do you see him, and how long did you have to wait? I really do feel helpless, I dont know what to do anymore, I want to give up !! sad

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      Hi Amber,

      I am sorry there is such a long wait to see Dr matharu.  I first saw hime privately which I get private medical insurance from my company so for this I am very lucky and grateful I know.  I see him on the NHS now as I had to see him so much the insurance company refused to pay anymore, so because I was seeing him privately to start with he fast tracked me in the NHS system.

      Please dont give up, firstly get on his system so you actually get an appointment, next thing is I can give you the phone number of his specialist headache nurses and explain to them you are at your whits end with your headaches, and that Dr Matharu has no appointments until next year.  They may be able to talk to Dr Matharu and also give you some advice.

      If you want there number of the nurse I call, I can let you have it, but please send me a private email please, I dont want it going public.

      Also please give me more details about your Migraines and what you are taking at the moment, I may be able to suggest to you some things what your GP can do while you are waiting to see Dr Matharu.  Just to get some sort of quality of life Amber, will make a huge difference to you.  I am sure I can help.

      Best wishes

      Take care, I will wait to see if you want to private message me

    • Posted

      Amber,

      I had a migraine for 9 months and they finally went away, I know the feeling of wanting to give up but please stay strong. There is hope to getting rid of these. Try to not stress at all about it or it's just going to make it worse, I know that's hard.

      Have you asked your dentist if you're grinding your teeth in your sleep?

      Have your tried a mouth guard?

      Please don't give up!!

    • Posted

      Hi Personal

      Sorry for the delay in getting back to you, I have spoken to someone called Akwinder, which I think is his secretary but I may be wrong. Please can you provide me with the details you have?

      I am currently on Candersarten, but havent had any relief. I have been on Amitryptiline, nortriptyline (appologies for spelling) and propranolol. I have had nerve injections which I fould no relief.

      I have had facial numbness/tingling for about 2 years now, Sometimes feels like the muscles in my face are contracting/being pulled. It can sometimes feel as if my face is drooping, but physically its not.

      My headache started end of March 2015, and hasnt gone away since, it feels like very tight pressure in and all around my head, my neck and top of back are always aching and sore. I also get sharp pains in my head. I get eye pain almost daily. I have had constant ringing in my ears/tinnitis since May 2015 too. My scalp also sometimes feels like its burning/tingling.

      It stops me from doing anything. It ruining my life, and considering no one can advise me if/when its going to get better I cant help but think what is the point in living?

      Sorry to be so depressing sad I just cant see a light at the end of the tunnel!

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    • Posted

      Hi Dereck

      Thanks for getting back to me

      Did you ever find what was causing yours, and how would you describe your migraine, was it 24/7 for the whole 9 months?

      Yes, I got a mouth guard from my dentist, but didnt make any difference sad Running out of options!

      Amber x

    • Posted

      Hi Amber, I am glad you was able to contact someone, I dont recognise the name though that you mentioned.

      The symptoms you are sufferening are typical hemeplegic migraine symptoms and you need to try Botox and Flunarizine, both of which Dr Matharu will give you.  The drug is not avaialble everywhere.

      If you want to private message me as the moderator has said, please do so and I can give you a phone number to call the nurse practioner in Dr Matharu's and they might be able to help you with some better advice.

      I would also suggest you try Pregabalin, which your GP can give you.

      Take care and keep in touch

    • Posted

      Hi Amber!

      Yes my migraine was 24/7 for about 10 months. I still don't know the exact reason of how I got it. But I know that I was going through a hard time in my life so I think it was stress that was causing it.

      But when I had the migraine I was stressing about that and making it never go away. I got a mouth guard and I think it started to help for about a month and they eventually got less painful to where I didn't need to stress about it and it just went away.

    • Posted

      Literally, Amber, same. I am a 20 year old student and it is VERBATUM the same situation...as I sit here happy to see others feel my pain while doctors don't seem to know what's going on, I am also sad but hopeful...

    • Posted

      Hello Caecae

      How long have you been having this problem, is it everyday also?

      What tablets are you currently on?

      It is very comforting to know someone else out there knows how I feel and how hard it makes life sad

      Amber x

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