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I have a buddy, that has true concerns with his parents, he's an involuntary celibate and very lonely. So, basically most of his only social interactions are with his parents, and with me occasionally. He barely never go out of home.
He's in his 20's, and most of the family life is peaceful. He told me he loves them a lot, but at the same time, he have outbursts of rage and, that he could literally kill his parents, because he lose control of himself. When he's out of home, he can't stop calling his parents. He's very anxious in general. He already hit and sent to the hospital his mother many times, threatened with a weapon his father. He's under psychiatric treatment, and take psychotropics. He's not a drug addict, but sometimes drink too much or abuse psychotropics. Police had to intervene many times, arresting him once eventually.
Last time, he told me that he could take his weapons and use it against his parents, and then wish for a suicide by cop. He talk normally with me, he's very confident to me, and a nice intelligent person, overall.
It's a totally crazy situation for me, taking into fact, that 95% of the time, he and his parents they all love each others, as he told me.
His rage outbursts come mostly from frustrations and defeating, he in these dramatic situation accuse his parents that he was born and for being friendless and involuntarily celibate all his life. He mistreat his parents with occasionally, verbal violence. But truly dramatic situation happens very rarely, once or less per year. They love each other overall, but he could hate them so much when certain conditions are reunited and harming them. I want to help this friend, I don't want to see him suicide, or even worse killing his parents, to be behind bars for decades or to be killed by cops.
Please, can someone or a professional mental care specialist help me and advise me what to do?
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