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I have 3 daughters , 2 different fathers.
Both of them decided they didn't wanna be parents and left . I struggle cant keep work kids barely have anything car down I hate myself I hate Im there mother they deserve a better mother sometimes I wish i was dead so they can have better lives with other ppl
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sam18386 mia58767
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hi mia, your post is terribly sad! poor you, the fact they have left and don't want to be parents is not your fault! you take your life back and take care of you for once, sounds like you need to. bless you!
jan34534 mia58767
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sorry you are feeling that way. i’m sure it can be difficult in that situation. But remember that even though your kids don’t have much, etc. im sure they love you and wouldn’t want to be with anyone else. it would be devastating for them to lose both parents.
dont give your power and dignity away to those that walked away from you and your children. . then they will have won!
Now is the time for you to fight for yourself and for your kids.
Is there any type of assistance available for you and the kids?
there are resources out there including government as well as local community resources. maybe you have already tried those but never ever give up!you can even check at Local churches for help and resources.
TAKE One day at a time. Every day set a goal. It could be as simple as making a couple phone calls to get some help.
you could also do some online virtual counseling that is free if you have access to that. Call around in your community to get some information.even though all of this is going on, make it a daily habit to express gratitude for what you do have. Mainly three beautiful daughters Who need and love their mother.
hope this helps a little. Stay focused positive and strong because you can do this and make life a little better for yourself and your daughters! ❤
bernipes mia58767
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I am sorry that you had to go through this, Mia. I don't have children, but I know up close the reality of solo moms and dads. I can only tell you to be strong for your daughters, because they see you as their biggest reference. I am sure that they are proud of you.
Don't blame yourself for the irresponsibility and lack of commitment of others. Try to talk to someone you trust, seek a support group or specialized forum.
Everything will be fine!