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My bf was so sleep deprived he didn't recognize me. Is this normal?

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joanna24819
joanna24819

My boyfriend and I are in college, and he's in a pretty intensive program, so he often stays up all night to get work done. Last night he did just that. When I woke up I asked him if he wanted to go get coffee, and despite his exhaustion he said yes, so I picked him up. As I drove I was talking about our weekend plans and how excited I was. He looked at me and said he couldn't hang out with me, he was hanging out with Joanna. Well that was weird, bc I am Joanna. A few minutes later he started asking where Joanna was, and when I said I was right here he looked at me like I was a total stranger. Then he started asking where he was and how he got there. I explained where we were and the put a hand on his shoulder and asked if he was ok. he replied with, "please don't touch me, I have a girlfriend" as if he had no idea I was his girlfriend. After about five minutes of this he snapped out of it and started talking to me as though nothing had happened. At first he didn't believe me when I said he hadn't recognized me.

Is this a normal symptom of sleep deprivation? Or should I be concerned it is something more serious?

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  • Goran95
    Goran95 joanna24819

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    he is just trolling you i am sure, or it can't be related to sleep issues. i know it myself because i have been through extreme insomnia without sleep for like 1.5-2 months and i was able to recognize everybody easily. so i think he is just having fun with you 😅

    • joanna24819
      joanna24819 Goran95

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      It may not be sleep issues, but I know it wasn't a joke. He saw how upset I was getting. If he'd been joking he would've stopped once he saw me get upset.

  • edgar30813
    edgar30813 joanna24819

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    Listen to Goran, your boyfriend was just having a bit of fun, that's all.

    It doesn't happen with one night of no sleep. It happens with Alzheimer's.

    On a serious note, he shouldn't be pulling all-nighters if he can avoid it. It's not healthy, and could potentially throw his sleep out of whack.

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