My boyfriend is angry with me about my mental state.
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My boyfriend and I are long distance, he recently moved to a new country although we've been long distance before then as well. I recently finished my course of antidepressants but have been experiencing severe mood changes (presumably with the withdrawal) as well as lots of stress from my exam season starting next week. On top of that I feel that his approach to the relationship has changed, and I am no longer a priority as it feels like he treats me differently (this was even before I stopped my treatment). Recently I have been experiencing very depressive episodes or high anxietyand panic attacks and I have admittedly been nagging him more than normal about his behaviour. Usually I calm down soon enough and become rationale to discuss it properly, but last night he told me "it's getting too much" and my mood swings are annoying. "He has other things to stress about" and doesn't want to have to ask about my mental state or deal with it every day.
That hurt me quite badly, as although I've suspected it he now showed me he was un-empathetic with my situation. I don't expect him to let me bully him, which I have made clear, but I'm now more than ever feeling like a burden to him. How do I approach this? Is he being fair to me considering my state or should I expect more support from him?
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monica25949 06971
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hi there, my biggest advice would be communication you guys should both talk it out and say what stuff bothers you and see how you can move on from there if the both of you still truly love each other you can get through anything! i just think that communicating is key every Relationship has its ups and downs, so i would just sit him down and tell him where your coming from and you both can say what bothers you and see what you can do to fix it . best of luck to you!
sam18386 06971
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hi, i don't know your name but that's not vital! no i don't think you're being unreasobable just truthful and loving. he is. maybe he has mived on maybw he has someone, maybe he hasn't grown up, maybe he doesn't deserve you. you coykd think all sorts.i take it you've tried to talk to him, if not try this first. if he's not as forthcoming as you like tjknk do you want tjis? what are you getting from him and your relationship? look after you. you could leave him to stew foe a while, see if he contacts you. if he doesn't you have your answer. good luck. if he goes think of what is good about that against what is bad. bless you, i hope ypu sort this our. x