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My boyfriend and I have been dating for ten months now, which may not seem long to most people but we really did fall in love pretty hard. Things were going absolutely amazing in the beginning of January, we spent a night together in a different city and both agreed it was the best night of our lives. However, he told me two days ago that he's fallen out of love and that his feelings have been decreasing. His reason was that he's depressed and just can't think of anything positive in life, his mind is just always thinking negatively. He does still have very strong feelings for me, however, he isn't able to call it love. He doesn't want to end the relationship either because he thinks there's hope for the future. I love him with absolutely all my heart and I'm so scared that he'll never fall back in love with me. Do you think his feelings are coming from his depression, or has he really fallen out of love with me forever? I've been trying my best to comfort him, this is the second time he's been depressed. Before this, he was depressed for a year and meeting me ended his depression because he had something to look forward to every day. I'm trying to make his life better and I'm going out of my way to do the smallest of things to make him happy, but I just don't know if anything will work. We both live in Pakistan, a country he can't wait to get out of and we're both moving back to America soon for college. For now, I've had a friend bring Panda Express, his favorite food, from New York to Pakistan. It's a surprise I'm going to give him tomorrow night. He wanted it a few weeks ago and said he hasn't had it in forever and if I got it for him somehow he'd love me forever. Am I doing the right thing by sticking with him even if it's breaking me? I just want to make him happy and I don't want to give up on our relationship yet. Last night after a deep conversation he told me he's hopeful for our relationship again. Please help me, I'm only seventeen and this is the first time I've been in love and I'm so lost right now.
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