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I'm reaching out here as I cannot reach out to anyone I know. I always speak very highly about my boyfriend to family and friends, they like him and he likes them. We've been together for just over 2 years now, are in our late 20's and recently started to talk about having kids and getting a house together.
But then lately, starting in October/November 2017 he started making inappropriate statements and "jokes" which quite honestly really scares me and makes me question our future together.
"I could kill someone right now." (He said in a very serious tone, not joking)
"I want to hit a woman at least a once".
I want to mention as well that I am recovering from depression and anxiety (I was not working March-September last year, and am now back at work full time struggling to make it work but doing my best), and am trying to rebuild my life in a stable way.
Him making those "jokes", is not stable to me. Although he is a very loving person and has never laid a finger on me, he would not hurt me physically, I'm sure of it. It's just that his statements make me feel very uneasy around him. I could never give birth to children with someone who says those things.
I need your help. Do I over react or does it seem odd to joke like he does?
I will see my psychologist again this Saturday, she also knows a about my boyfriends "jokes".
I need all support I can get.
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