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Six weeks ago my bf left me. He just got up and left blocked all contact with me . Blocked me by phone facebook and wassspp. We were together for four years and in the first six months of us being together he left me for around a week and came back. This behaviour of him leaving me become worse as more in the relationship we got. He would up and go spend nights in hotels sending me horrible txt messages saying I was deluded I was mental he wished he wasn't alive. He once even went to holland for 5 nights after a little row we had. This started to get worse in 2016 he left me for someone else took her on holiday and then decided he didn't like her and wanted me back. We got back together was fine for a few months then he would start to go off for nights on end saying it was all my fault. He would lie about me to his family and my family and put me down it was as if he wanted everybody to hate me. There was a time when he got so down for one week he would drill the door and stay in there locked away intill the morning when he went to work while he locked his self in the room he would drink vodka
Some days and for a couple of weeks we were good he was happy and we got on well. He would hate any family get together and cause a row so we wouldn't go or as for the last family get together he just left causing a row with me.
Six weeks ago he just left me with no explation at all blocked all contact I've been emailing him And no reply. He is on medication for clinical depression been on the tablets for about 2 months on and off as he does not want to take them.
Last week I had my first email from him
I went on pof to speak to people to try and get over him. He was on there
I emailed him and said how painful it was seeing him on there he replied one hour later saying he knows how I feel as he feels the same. Hated seeing me on there this was the first contact I had from him in five weeks. He then went on and said he thinks I stole of him he thinks I recored him at the doctors !! He thinks I told everybody he had bipolia !! Then he went on to say he knows this as my daughter had told him I stole off him and told her he had bipolia. Then when I spoke to my daughter about it he said no that's what I think. He has completely got everything so mixed up so wrong. Iam so confused I want to help him. I love him with all my heart but he is just pushing me away. And not contacting me again.
I don't know what to do. Do I stop emailing him now and see if he contacts me. I really don't know what to do
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